ITT: Ask the Opposite Gender Anything

What are some signs a girl is attracted to you or checking you out?

Girl, does this make sense?

I am thinking that this may indicate some interest, but isn't wanting to get to close out of fear that one of us will be hurt.

The girl is extremely open with me despite not being too close with me. But she has never texted me first (Still replies to like 90% of my texts at length)

>>18272867
Staring, kinda showing off, being near you for no reason among others

Does anyone else ever run out of things to talk about with their significant others? Especially in LDRs?

>>18272920
Talk less and do more stuff on your own, so you have things to talk about.

>>18272920
It happens when we see each other too much and don't do things on our own.

I want to be treated like a silly sausage. How do I go about this?

How weird would it be to ask for a friend for some help on getting pictures for a dating account or something like that? I only have a handful, and all of them were before some significant weightloss so I'd rather not use them.

>>18272975
Just ask someone you're relatively comfortable with; they won't be judgmental and will probably be happy to help since it can potentially better your life.

For girls:
Why might you send mixed signals/not be direct with feelings? There's a girl who I really like and am really interested in, but she'll switch between being somewhat mean to me to wanting to hear everything I have to say and being the most compassionate person I've ever met.

Sometimes she'll flat out ignore my text messages, but sometimes she'll blow up my phone at 1 or 2 in the morning.

We've hung out a handful of times, she says how she doesn't know what she'd do without me in her life, gets touchy feely, etc but will randomly drop off the face of the earth.

Am I not being direct enough? Too direct? What gives?

I know the whole "we're not mind readers" in the OP, but I'm just trying to figure out at least a few reasons why someone might do that.

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Do any girls have links to porn that features the kind of dirty talk they like?

I've NEVER done it, but that psychological thing is so common for girls nowadays to reach orgasm...I don't just want to repeat "you like that, slut" 3x.

I can only improvise so much. Or if you can greentext me examples. Males also welcome to please share advice, I have to learn this

The guy i'm dating told me that "he feels heavy inside and doesn't know why".
Why is he telling me this and what should I even say?

Why the fuck are girls so quick to take actions like this? Social ostracism and blocking I mean
>be me, studying in library
>maybe 4ish/10 unattractive girl sees what I'm studying and we talk for a while, become friends
>each day same deal, she's very nice and seems sympathetic for my autism induced loneliness
>after a few days of this I kinda get past the unattractive face and decide that I really enjoy spending time with her, I work up the nerve to ask her If she's wants to see a movie or something
>"oh idk anon I think I'm going to be busy soon" day progress as normal after
>next day she's doesn't show up, it's getting late so I check Facebook, BLOCKED
>few days later as I'm leaving library to go home she enters the library and we make eye contact, she's looks away and covers her face with a book she's holding as we pass by
Literally WHY? I've never been made to feel like a robot in public before. Ive literally never hadn't such a a bad experience and i have no idea what I did so wrong
Why didn't she just say at she wasn't interested
Why did she have to make me feel like I was some kind of sick stalker just because I made it apparent that I liked her and asked her out?

This happened years ago but I still think about how shit it made me feel (maybe once every 6 months at most) How do I get over this? Ive had plenty of girlfriends at this point, i outgrew my autism long ago but I still think back to this event and it ruins my day.

Ladies, would you date a guy who has a female roommate?

>>18273156
>Ladies, would you date a guy who has a female roommate?
Sure, nothing weird about it.

im confused, and quite bummed out honestly.

girl ive been seeing for a while wants to take things "slower", still wants to date/see each other/hangout but wants to go slower to figure herself out and see if shes ready for a relationship.

only issue is here the past two days have been extremely intimate. she had a rough night Friday so I went and picked her up at a bar while her friends left her and took her back to her place, spent the night cuddling, and she told me she loves me so much. She got me a housewarming gift with a card reading a bunch of nice sweet things about how much she loves me as well as how timley I was coming into her life and how much she enjoys that,etc.

she lost her phone Friday night so she couldn't text people but was able to communicate via that imessage app on her laptop so last night before we were about to go out, she was on her laptop in front of me and a message exchange with some other guy popped up along with a text from her friend asking if she "ending things with me already". She was pretty quiet and distant all night, then later dropped some news on me that she wants to slow things down to figure herself out, to see if she wants a relationship, etc.

Im just confused, she says she loves me but this thing is clearly over right? im not going to wait around for her. I love her so much, and she still wants to see me but I just don't know if it will be the same. what do

>>18273190
Sounds like you're her second choice right now. She's trying to figure out whether it's worth staying with the first guy, she's probably not thinking about you right now at all. Dump her.

>>18273201
the message exchange from last night was from earlier in the week wanting to set some stuff up for next week after her finals, she also mentioned she felt awful about not talking to me at all during the week, but it seems she was occupied with other interests.

she mentioned multiple times she has had relationship issues with guys being shitty. she wants a relationship but is scared of getting hurt again and just likes to date around till she finds the right mix, my head just hurts because I don't really even want to believe all the shit she does say about me, but clearly wants to weigh other options for herself.

>>18273209
Well I don't see why you should wait for her to gauge you out, like you said. Just goes to show that she's only preoccupied with self interests, these type of people either date because they don't want to be single or/and because they seek validation. I was in your situation when I was told she wanted to take it slow, I gave her the benefit of the doubt and a few weeks later she started ghosting me for another guy. It's better to move on before any real damage is caused

>>18272863
Guys
Would you go after a girl who is much less good looking than you? Why?

If a girl constantly teases you, does that mean she likes you? It's never truly hurtful.

>>18273261
Sure. Because I don't value body image as long as your not gross.

>>18273261
Gotta be a sweet girl, no desperation, just cooolness, this kinda love is a slow burn deal so you're gonna have to invest time in making the guy love your personality, which is a real thing.

Helps to have your own interests that you can involve the guy in, but what really helps is agreeing to share something he loves (a book, game, sport or hobby) without becoming obsessive (unless you REALLY take to that subject). I can elaborate more but I'm rambling. Need to have a decent body though, I'm talking either thicc or just not fat.

>>18273272
Oh I don't want to make a 10/10 fall for me. A very good looking guy has a huge crush on me and I don't understand why.
I'm pretty average, he could really date anybody and I don't understand why me. Usually if a good looking guy hits on me it is just for easy sex, but he apparently isn't.

>>18273299
Maybe if you spend a lot of time together. That's really what guys want.

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Girls (or guys if they have /adv/)
>Dated girl for 2 weeks, she wanted to take slow
>said she didn't think she was ready for another relationship
>1 day later she said she regrets saying that, got back together, said she no longer wants to take it slow and we fucked
It's now been one month since we fucked and haven't had sex since. Honestly we don't share a whole lot of interests, but I still treat her right. What's the deal? If we don't have sex this week should I straight up ask her why we haven't?

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>>18272863
Question for US femanons.

I'm going on holiday to California soon and was wondering, would you find an English accent more attractive than the other American guys?

>>18272920
Its fine, I often think that silence can often be better than a conversation. If you think about it, being comfortable to be silent around each other shows you that you are both comfortable around each other.

No girl has ever liked me. How do I find out what makes me so repulsive?

>>18273401
Ask a good friend what's wrong with you.

>>18273052
>I'm gonna take a fat shit all over your chest, you filthy little cunt
>You like the way that smells, bitch
>Moldy bread in the garbage can, whore
>Clean my dinner plate, oh yeah you like that
Filthy

>>18273401

You are either:
Ugly
Have bad personality
Not popluar

>>18273150
my best guess is that she had some big issues.

maybe she thought "that guy is way out of my league, why is he hitting on me? he's probably just acting to make fun of me".
idk. could be anything.

>>18273406
No friends

>>18273401
Idk man that's tough. I'm an out of shape ugly piece of shit, and even I've had a decent amount of luck with women.

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Any girls here believe in zodiac signs? if so how much do they dictate your decision in a man?

Is it acceptable to flat out ask a friend to be FWB? I'm a 23 year old guy and I want to ask my 28 year old coworker, she's not very social but I know she likes me and we've discussed how neither of us want a relationship right now. I've never had a fwb situation.

>>18273430
Should've floated the idea when you were talking about how neither of you wants a relationship. Especially if you know she likes you.

How unattractive is bald/balding ?

>>18273435
I thought about it but I didn't want to be awkward. I haven't had a relationship in a long time so idk what's acceptable.

>>18273438
>How unattractive is bald/balding ?
Just don't be ridiculous and shave it if you're noticeably balding. I'd take a bald guy over a balding guy every day.

>>18273430
Ask her to hang out, make a move, fuck, and then ask her.

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>>18273441
Ty.

Will reading more really help me become a better writer?
I'm a terrible writer and it's frustrating getting A-'s even after I put in a lot of work.

>>18273454
Yes, definitely.

>>18272871
Ideas?

Girls, what opinion do you have of women who own plenty of designer clothing and accesories?

If you see a woman with a hand-stitched crocodile leather Gucci handbag, are you impressed? Jealous? Neutral?

Femanons. Is a mustache really that unappealing in the early 20's age group?

>>18273463
Neutral.
I find it pretty classless to wear clothes that have visible logos - I generally think less of women who wear clothes with evident logos unless they're extremely elegant and can pull it off (and very few can).

>>18273382
Pls respond

>>18273471
>Femanons. Is a mustache really that unappealing in the early 20's age group?
Yes. It looks ridiculous on most people.

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>>18273471
You need a facial structure like this, or be an English Gentleman

>>18273478
I see.

So you're not the type of woman who watches those unboxing videos of vloggers with $5,000 bags?

>>18273483
>>18273497
I don't have his facial structure or the same thickness. My hair is blonde and about 3/4s of an inch.

>>18273506
Not really.
I mostly follow youtube channels about space, math, travelling, interior design and nerdy shit.
I follow some vloggers/beauty gurus (is it even a thing anymore?) but they're very simple and sober in general.

Everyone

How do I let a guy know that I'm seeing someone without being rude? Someone asked me if we can talk, and I'd say yes, but only if I could make clear that I'm not looking for anything more than friendship, but it seems rude to say that upfront, like I'm assuming he is looking for more.

>>18273556
Just casually mention him in a conversation

>oh you go to [school], my bf goes to [school]
etc

How interested would you be in meeting up with a random guy on the internet to just get your pussy eaten out? Would you be more or less interested in this than the same deal with penetrative sex?

>>18273556
I prefer a woman be blunt about it if she understands I am attracted. It helps me move on faster. Even if it's a long-term crush. Although that is a bit more difficult to overcome, I would still prefer the truth because it lays it out simply and I say to myself "she's happy with someone". I have a huge crush on a girl atm and I wish she'd be blunt with me.. instead she has ignored the shit out of me.

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Girls

How can guys who look so cringy get so many girls? Just look at his smile and eyes... he looks awkward as fuck

>>18273563
The situation I was describing is this guy asking me if I want to chat
I don't want answering "yes" to be understood like I'm interested in more than that, and I can't "casually mention" my bf yet because we're not really having a conversation yet
>>18273581
I also prefer being clear, but I don't wanna come across like an arrogant that assumes people are interested in more

>>18273592
But you are an arrogant who assume people are interested in more. If you want to chat, chat.

>>18273150
>reject a guy nicely but continue to hang it with him and to be friends
>get accused of leading him on and using him for attention and an emotional tampon

>reject a guy nicely and break contact
>get accused of being a bitch and making him feel like a creepy stalker

You just can't win

>>18273382
Some girls do. From my experience it's usually teenage girls who are big anglophiles, from the normie ones into stuff like One Direction, to the tumblr ones into Dr Who and Sherlock.

>>18273463
I think they waste a ton of money. I can't imagine spending that much on a single bag. And designer items usually don't even look that nice so I don't understand the appeal in the first place.

>>18273141
buy him some laxatives.

>want to ask girls out
>can't stop thinking I'm not good enough ;_;
Wat do?

>>18273421
Not a girl, but the last girl I was seeing for a while said she wouldn't start a serious relationship with me because we're both virgos.

>>18273463
Not a girl but I remember hearing at the store work the Manager was boasting about how she bought a pair of $500 flip flops/sandals and how back in the day that used to be SOOOO much for her but now it is nothing.

You don't need $500 fucking flipflop/sandals bitch. You are just a lucky white girl whos dad knew somebody and was able to get you a nice job.

>>18273743
Become good enough

>>18273261
if i like spending time with her etc. then yes of course.

>>18273261
As long as youre not fat
By fat I mean grotesque, not just 10 or 30 pounds overweight.

>>18273265
Depends. If you're teasing her back, than absolutely. If it's just her than it depends.

>>18273788
Jesus Christ that is a bullet you fucking dodged.

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>>18272863
I'm 23 years old dude and I have never even held hands with a girl, let alone had a relationship or been intimate with one.
Is this bad?

>>18272871
Female here

Open is always good. She's probably willing to be your friend at least. If she frequently goes into detail when texting, that's a good sign. It's good that you're afraid of getting hurt. That means she's probably awesome and you're willing to work to make things go smoothly. I recently came out of a relationship where the guy left me to avoid getting hurt, pretty much. That hurt. The experience was still worth it.

>>18273052
girl here
https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=318277703
i absolutely love this video. it's not the dirty talk, but the assertiveness that the man has without being agressive

>>18273156
yes. i have male roommates

>>18273578
0.

>>18273936
>40 minutes
Better make some popcorn for this one

>>18273876
No. Just relax, my man.

>>18273936
What a bizarre situation. Women are weird. But I see how that could do it for you. Porn is porn.

>>18273743
You will never be good enough. Just better. Go for it, my man.

>>18273382
US femanon here
possibly. many girls do (i'm indifferent) but for sure you'll stand out. you will be extremely memorable. it might be easier to exchange numbers with girls just because knowing an english guy can be a novelty to some.

>>18273401
get a tinder

>>18273743

dont be a pussy, bc if you keep thinking youre not good enough you're never going to find the person who tells you otherwise. and so what, if you're not good enough you can at least try. getting rejected sucks, but at least you tried.

Girls--

There is an older woman at my work (I'm 22, she's 31) who I am extremely attracted to. I've been unsure how to approach her or what to say to her.

I notice she's been touching me more, like putting her hand on my shoulder when making comments to me or putting her hand on my back when saying some things.

Is she being motherly or does she want my anglo cock?
How do I hit on an older woman in an office environment? Just ask her out for a drink and throw caution to the wind?

>>18273578
no sane woman would meet up with a stranger for any good or service behind closed doors.

guys

would you get back with a fuckbuddy/girlfriend after a 3-4 month breakup, assuming that there was nothing really wrong with the relationship before the breakup?

Guys,

How far is too far when it comes to dating a girl you like? 1 hour, 3 hours, 18 hours? At what point would you decide it's not worth the hassle?

Girls, what do you think is "feminine penis" and what do you think about guys who say that?

>>18274021
max 2 hours

>>18273996
No, because I don't do fuckbuddies. Disgusting. Absolutely disgusting.

>>18273996
That is so vague. I could go either way.

>>18274021
I also asked this once. MY opinion would be 1 hour at most.

Is it weird to date someone 3 years younger than you?

>>18273141
>The guy i'm dating told me that "he feels heavy inside and doesn't know why".

Probably depressed. Why is he telling you? Because he's the type that shares things. What does he want you to do? Nothing, he's just saying it to say it.

>>18273261
>would you go after a girl who is much less good looking than you? Why?

It's all relative. Just because you think he's better looking doesn't mean he does. Or that that matters to him.

>>18273556
>How do I let a guy know that I'm seeing someone without being rude?

Just tell him you're seeing someone else. That isn't rude, that's just stating a fact.

>>18273996
>would you get back with a fuckbuddy/girlfriend after a 3-4 month breakup

Fuck buddy: maybe. Fuck buddy who thinks she might have been a girlfriend: No.

Those are two very different things. Actually if I "breakup" with a duck buddy, I'm not getting back together because that sounds like shit got messy and it had to have an actually breakup instead of just being done.

>>18274021
>How far is too far when it comes to dating a girl you like? 1 hour, 3 hours, 18 hours? At what point would you decide it's not worth the hassle?

1 hour.

Anything further than that is not practical, will cause unnesesary issues, and will make, actually getting to know each other that much harder.

You need to be able to meet up spur of the moment. Not be forced to plan every single meet days in advance.

>>18274058
Only if one of the parties is underage.

So, I know this is technically covered by the fact, but It might work out in the way I am paraphrasing.

I am naturally very hairy. I am not insecure about it, and I change from having body hair and not having body hair, but I always wonder if there are Gilrs that are into the hair thing. I never really met one, all the girls I had interacted with, which weren't that many to be honest, prefered no hair. Is there any girl on /adv/ that is into body hair or could share her opinion on the subject?
I like my chest hair, for example, and my treasure trail, and It is kind of a shame to take it off, but if It is just too much of a turnoff I might re-think it, so I would like an opinion.
I got what people had told me to be a "great body", although I think I would rank at good or nice at best for perspective sake.

>>18273631
>Nicely

I don't think there is anything nice about pretending the guy doesn't exist anymore. The book thing was taking it too far even.

>>18273141

Maybe he cares enough about you, or is comfortable enough around you, to share his problems.

Actually, it's pretty sad that you would go "Why would he tell me this", dude probably just feels down.

men... introverts in general

is it gross/slutty if a girl initiates sex first?

>be me sleeping with crush last week in his bed
>both very very shy
>no kissing/sex anything like that
>wanted to fuck him so bad
>he won't initiate sex bc shy
>i didn't initiate sex bc also pretty shy

basically, if i were to initiate sex with him next time would i be seen as gross/slutty and is it better to wait until he initiates so i know he's comfortable?

>>18274139
Not at all.

>>18274139
Not gross/slutty for me, unless you did this on the first date.
That's my opinion as an introverted guy, I can't read his mind.

>>18273471

Dude here.

Stop worrying about it.
Moustaches do look fucking awful... At first.

Seriously, watch both seasons of "Narcos" on netflix.
Moustache central.

Then watch how your opinion of them changes right up to the end.
First it's like "GAAAY! srs tho, why'd he do that, he loks dumb".
Then "You know... It's really not that noticable".
"I'm not gay, but I would".
"I wonder if I'd look that good with one?"

Seriously, I'm a beard guy, a neckbeard guy. But I'm staring down the barrel of a razor considering bringing 'taches back.

Women: How do I ensure my future children do not racemix or date/marry a negro? I understand I could tell them straight up I would disown them if they married a nigger but I feel like that might inspire them to be edgy teenage rebels. Any methods or tips I can use to prevent my genes from being desecrated?

>>18274139
>is it gross/slutty if a girl initiates sex first?

It is ideal.
Don't have to worry abouit being a "creep" if she's the one doing it.

The bigger concern is how you do it.
Ease into it. "Wanna fuck?" will throw any guy off his game. No one expects that shit.

>>18274021

Depends on how much I like her desu.

Want to fuck?
10-15 minutes, if I can be bothered.
Want to date and get to know her?
Half hour.
Actually in love with her?
I'd proclaim it by walking 500 miles and then 500 more.

>>18274181
just act racist around them when they're growing up so they see that as a norm and pick it up as well. my dad was like that and to this day you'll never catch me dating a negro

>>18274181
Honestly of you just raise them normally, they most likely won't. Racemixing, especially white women black men, is artificially hyped by both sides of the aisle. It's actually very rare. The vast majority of people stick to their own race.

>>18274126
What should she have done?

>>18274022
It's an oxymoron. Guys who believe that are just uncomfortable with their homosexuality.

>>18274237

>Sorry, I don't want it to go that way.

Then either it gets awkward, so no more friendship, or they go through it and that's that.

That's about it, literally nobody would complain about that, and if somebody ever did they would be absolutely unjustified.

It's the logical way about it.

Should I go balls deep when I fuck my girlfriend? I'm only a little bit under 6 inches long.

>>18274181
Racemixing is fairly rare. Races are naturally attracted to their own race, not by some racist cause, but by a more biological cause. Obviously this doesn't apply to everyone but it applies to a very large amount.

>>18272863
Been talking to girl on tinder for 2 days. She suddenly stops messaging me. Convo was basic getting to know each other type. Really enjoyed it and find her extremely attractive. She hasn't responded since Fri. Is it needy if I send her a message to get the convo going again?

>>18274301
Just send "hey bitch, this dick won't suck itself"

>>18274302
Oddly enough, this kind of thing might actually occasionally work on the type of people who use tinder.

>>18273401
this.

i don't care i'm not having any luck with chicks, what kills me is the fact that i have no idea why.

Maybe I'll get a response if I ask here.

How do girls feel about dating guys who live at home with their parents?

I feel like a piece of shit because I fucked my life up when I was younger. Im 26 and finishing school, getting a job doing server side programming. The issue here is I have no experience and will only being paid maybe 40k USD, since the job is in the middle of nowhere and I have to commute an hour. Problem is I live outside of NYC and it's expensive as fuck. My parents are upper middle class, but my mom is annoying as fuck. I don't want roommates at all. I just want a place where I can bring girls back to and look like an actual adult who can manage himself and pay bills.

Anyways if I live at home I probably wont be able to find a girl or have any sex at all. I have above average face and fit body, but I have nowhere to bring girls back to. I get attention from girls, but I just end up brushing them off because of my situation in life. On top of the embarrassment of being 26 and living with parents. I am saving my money, I have about 25k saved and I own a car which is maybe worth 10k. I worked part time while going to school and since I was 17 I was never unemployed. So i'm not a huge piece of shit, only a small one.

Help from anybody would be appreciated.

There's an older woman who frequents the downtown area me and friends drink at. She's cool, she runs a weekly event night at our bar and we'll hang and drink with her some nights, me and her are flirty, but it's pretty innocent flirtiness, just for fun. Last week she drinks too much but lives close by so I offer to walk her home. We get to her house and she offers to smoke weed. We're laying there high and drunk and one thing leads to another and eventually we just start making out, we fool around but no sex. Next day I text her I had fun, she says she did too and calls me a great kisser. Cool, confidence booster, got my rocks off, would like to see her again and fuck but not forcing anything, just seeing what happens.

This Friday she invites me and a friend out to her place to drink and smoke. We do so, have a good time, we leave, nothing special going on. She texts me the next night asking how old I am, I respond, and it turns into a flirty thing. Today she texts me again, some more flirtiness. She mentions something about me losing cool points, so I ask her if she keeps a tally. She lists some things I won and lost points for. Then she asks me where she ranks. I feel a bit awkward so I just say I go by feel and she's a high scorer with growth potential if she plays her cards right. I get an lmao text and that's it. She texts me a few hours later asking how she can play her cards right.

Here's where I'm stuck. I had fun, but it was only that, I don't see her as anything more. I would like things to be casual, but from our convos it seems she might be really into me in a way im not into her. I don't really know how to respond. It's all very light and flirty, but this feels pretty direct and I dont know what to say.

>>18273979
Become friends with her and then ask her out eventually.

>>18274197
>>18274234
>>18274299
>expect cuck/SJW answers and offenses to that anon's bait
>3 good answers
I don't even know what to feel.

>>18274290
Why not?

Why do guys like to troll?
Why do girls do not like to troll?
t. Master troll.

>>18274418
I don't see the point, there's nothing funny about it. Why guys do it, no idea.

>>18274407
cucks/sjws actually hate race mixing most of all
white men taking Asian wives is making the concept of a "career" woman difficult in the fact that when they hit 35 and decide its time to settle down there literally are not enough "decent" men left.
in finland for instance there has been a massive surge of immigration from Thailand, almost exclusivley female, which feminist groups have been quick to try and stop

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
>Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

I really hope people realize this is totally wrong.

>>18274482
You got any advice for the right way then?

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is physic a big factor? Use to be skinny fat and I'm currently getting /fit/ I'm not the most funny or confident guy but I'm hoping being shaped like brock lesner will amplify the qualities I do have

>>18274466
It is pretty funny when you throw some bait and people start to argue or when you make an ambiguous post and someone gets all butthurt. You should try it.

>>18274482
How so?

>>18273928
I guess. I asked why she was going to do something, and she sent about ~15 lines explaining it

But yea, maybe she's afraid that one of us will be hurt due to her being unable to put effort into a relationship?

>>18274482
I really hope people realize this is totally wrong.

I'm the anon who wrote that.

There is a long ass life story behind that about how I went from socially phobic to gregarious, confident, and socially competent to the degree I've started convos and made friends literally just walking down the street, and gone on dates with people I met that same day.

It took nearly a decades worth of effort to do, but it was done. Step by step. Inch by inch. Tiny improvement after tiny improvement, until years later I found myself in a completley different place.

Females: is acne on a guy a dealbreaker ?

>>18274557
We us kings

>>18274563
?

>>18274531
I'm on that way too. Since a few years ago, I'm obligated to go out and be useful. Little by little, I'm talking more and more with people. I'm not scared of them anymore.
I'm >>18274505

>>18274531
That just means you wasted decades to accomplish what everyone else did (the 4chan nu-male population disregarded) by default.

Well done, I guess? I mean it's not a real accomplishment, but at least you're striking par now!

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>>18274418

>>18273584
>sportsball
That's why.

>>18273584
No! I would never select a man whose neck was as wide as his head. Wtf is that

>>18274557
If it's just a few spots, then I don't think much of it.
However, if you have cheeks full of pimples I would be a little hesitant desu.

Personality usually makes me look past any physical imperfections like that, though. If I get to know you and you turn out to be my type, I'd definitely care a lot less about your acne.

>>18274569
And what's the alternative? Be a whiny bitch who shits on others to make himself feel better?

>be ugly
>have high standards
Why do my problems have to be so difficult to solve? If I simply was fat, it would be easy.

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I wish I had a huge social circle, anons! Fuck me in the ass, it's my biggest problem to date. The female pool is so small. I don't expect to find a girl from just a handful of friends' friends that I see very very rarely. The strength is in numbers, nigga! Guys and girls, How do I increase my social circle? I have like 3 friends I see regularly, who know girls, but it won't help much. What do?!

>>18274661
Easiest way is to buy friends, like Charlie Sheen.
>WINNING

>>18274666
Fuck you and fuck your trips! I have no money.

Guys,

How do you amicably end a casual dating situation? I like him and would like to remain friends after this.

Girls, what would be your reaction if your bf started singing Ed Sheeran for you?

>I'm in love with the shape of you
>We push and pull like a magnet do
>Although my heart is falling too
>I'm in love with your body
>And last night you were in my room
>And now my bedsheets smell like you
>Every day discovering something brand new

would girls go out with a guy who's posting on /adv/ looking for a girlfriend?

asking for a friend

>>18274685
That doesn't happen very often and it's very dependent on the person. Most men won't be able to remain friends and it's selfish of you to try to keep that person around

>>18272863

21 and sexless. But I'm not what you'd expect when hearing that.
Actually college athlete. Actually have good grades. Actually have friends. I was raised very catholic but have grown away. Yet still feel shameful at the idea of dating anyone long term who isn't perfect.
I meet women, get numbers, but never seem to stay consistent or follow up. Always do mental gymnastics to convince myself it's not worth it and emphasize all the women's faults as justification. But then I feel sorry for myself and realize I'm 21 and still never been in a snatch.I just wanna get laid so I can look for a relationship beyond just wanting to destroy this v-card.
What do? How do I stop this masochistic cycle?

>>18274687

Depends on if they like Ed Sheeran or not.

>not a girl replying

>>18274685
>>18274685
you can try to very VERY slowly bring things to an end romantically, but i agree with >>18274693 that it most likely will not turn out well and it's a bit selfish if he doesn't feel accordingly to what you want to do

>>18274685
>I like him and would like to remain friends after this.
Just tell the truth and see what he says. Respect him, if he says he's got feelings or whatever. In that case give the "ball" to him to keep in contact. Like say you're not interested, but you could see meeting later as friends if both want that.

>>18274687
If you can sing dude, go for it. If I was a girl I'd go wet from some good singing, I'm sure, I'm sure...

>>18274691
No.

Are girls impressed with eccentric taste in music / art / film or do they just think you're weird

>>18274685
Typically when it becomes "I think we should just be friends", that's where most guys (self included) will make an exit since it's either you actually don't want to be friends but don't want to blatantly say it or it will be just too awkward to remain friends.

>>18274685
Most men won't want anything to do with you once sex / a relationship is out of the picture. Sorry but that's just the way it is.

>>18274709
I'm not a girl, but if they can appreciate those interests then it's a plus, right? If they think they're hideous then you got a problem, but maybe not one that ruins everything. Do not worry about it, my friend.

>>18274139
Regardless of who initiates it, If you're having pre-marital sex then you are a slut.

>>18274418
I'm a girl and I like to troll. I once made a fake account of a racist man and got all these sandniggers riled up. I am fat though so I'm invisible in most people's eyes. If I was thin I would've had a social life and wouldn't troll.

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>>18272863
Girls, do you ever give your Facebook out to people you are interested?

If a man has a hairy shaft, can women feel that hair scratching them in their vagina or is it not that big a deal?

>>18274693
>>18274704
>>18274714

I actually like him quite a bit and would like to keep seeing him, however I will be moving soon and I don't have faith in my ability to make a LDR work. So I figured it would be better to keep him in my life as a friend rather than as a failed boyfriend.

>>18274871
A long distance friendship that has formed from a former relationship is extra doomed.

>>18274139
You can try slow dancing together first to a nice song.. and kissing. Don't rush things if they feel awkward. What the other anon said is good advice too, abott marrying first. But not everyone will take that advice sadly.. all I can say is, be good to one another..

>>18272863

>Calling me Daddy during sex.

Why?

I've dated girls who claim they have never called a man 'Daddy' and do not find the idea of ever doing it appealing.

>3 dates and sex sessions later.

"Fuck me, Daddy!"

I understand that I'm the dominate one, the protector, the provider, etc. but is that the only way a woman can express to me that's they feel about and view me?

It doesn't bother me, I just find it amusing.

Ok
I'm a late bloomer

I'm 31 years old
And I'm a virgin
Vilify me.

I have a great career. I'm in far better than average shape.

Am I disgusting to women due to my inexperience?
I've been nurturing this grudge for years. Is it justified?

>>18274995

You chose career over honing your pussy hunting skills.

Now that you have a great career and are in shape, you're in a much better position to begin to hone those skills you never developed.

You have money and that's a force factor in itself.

As is looks.

Just start talking to younger women since they're very easy to persuade and manipulate into doing whatever you want.

You have no reason to harbor any type of judge against women for not throwing themselves at you; it was your choice to focus on what was more important to you at the time, your career.

>>18274978
I honestly can't see why it sounds so hot to some people. My dick would die if a girl called me daddy. Maybe because I don't live in america and it certainly isn't as mainstream in my country

>>18275084
It sounds hot to me because it's so submissive. I'm a degenerate American though.

This isn't really have anything to do with woman, men, or even relationships but I thought I throw it out there.

What do you guys do when you're interests are so niche that you can't really have a true connection with any person? I'm pretty content with myself but there hasn't really been one person where I can't simply share my interests with them.

Do you get over it? Did you eventually find someone?

Men, what's the difference between having sex via hookup, fwb and your long term girlfriend/soon to be wife.

>>18274709
the lack of replies to this post unfortunately suggest the latter.

t. guy with eccentric taste in music / art and interest in programming

So, how do I start having sex with strangers?

>>18274995
Some women are in to the virgin shit, get you one of those

>>18275261
>hookup
Attractive but probably not a great match personality or interest wise.

>fwb
A friend I'm attracted to, can have a conversation with, some same interests but ultimately just a friend.

>long term girlfriend/soon to be wife.
Pretty much like a best friend you also sleep with. Pretty similar interests, enjoy each other company enough to be around each other for long periods etc.

>>18275266
>interest in programming

Lots of girls are programmers (me included). As for the weird taste thing, I don't care, so neither. Don't see how anyone would be impressed just by you liking something though

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Girls,
I went on a date with a girl on Tinder, she's 18 I'm 23, and the date lasted 6 hours. It could have gone longer if we had more to do, and we don't have our own places at the moment.
We both would like to go on another date, and of course I should be the one arranging. I've got the week off (except for the weekend) and next week I'll be starting full time work

Is this week too soon? Next week it'll have to be a late and shorter date. I like the option for the date to be long but I don't know if I'll be up for a date so soon. I also don't want to hold off too long for the next date. What's the better choice here?
>>18275261
>hookup
Just want sex, maybe a nice night but nothing longer than that night probably
>fwb
Lonely, want a friend and sex but not up for a relationship
>long term/wife
I like you and I can see a future with you

>>18275005
Underrated post. I'm not that guy but this is well thought out anon, it made me feel less frustrated

>>18273052
12 hours later, bumping. Ladies, 8 NEED to prefect this, I want my encounters to end in female orgasm

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I'm a guy asking a girl.
Well, ask really isn't the. est way to describe it. It's more just saying.
And it's less of just saying and more of what I'm not saying.
And what I'm not saying is that I want to date you. Except that I don't exactly want to date you. I want to date the idea of you, and not even exactly that.
And what I mean by that is that I'm not interested in dating you at all. But not exactly at all, but I do want to date one of you.
Except it's not one of you, it's none of you. In fact, she's a person that used to exist.
Yes, you guessed it, I want to be with my ex. Not my ex as she is now, but my ex when we were together.
Yes, you can imagine that she is perfect in every way except the part where she left me to fuck a bunch of guys who aren't me.
But you understand my feel. I don't want to date all of you, but I'll still try to.
And fail, because I don't really put any effort towards it, because I have no motivation.
And the funny part is I have no motivation, because I have no girl.
Thank you for your support, gals.

>>18275274
1)
>Lots of girls are programmers
where do i find girls who are programmers IRL? My main hobby is programming and I can't even find guy friends who like to program as much as i do.

2)
>Don't see how anyone would be impressed just by you liking something though
I'ts not just liking something, it's being good at it. I can't find a single person IRL who excels at both programming, music production and digital art. I'm fucking good at what i do.


I had low self confidence and came to know that having confidence is good, but now it's inflated as hell and through the roof and even though people look up to me with respect, girls only see me as friend material.

how the fuck do I get people to stop being scarred of me?
I'm a 8/10 Entj guy very masculine and agressive looking. (always have a frown due to facial habbit)

>>18275324
>I'm fucking good at what i do
Software engineer and independent gamedev here. Don't get your hopes up

>>18275332
>independent game dev
I wouldn't get your hopes up about anything in general lmao

>>18275332
>Don't get your hopes up
Computer scientist and independent gamedev too.

I seriously hope you came up with your own engine for gamedev.

>>18275344
Just a hobby anon

>>18275347
>writing something you don't need to for no reason
Why?

>>18275354
>game dev
>a hobby

>>18275324
Well I'm a CS student so I met a lot of female programmers in University. I'm a TA in a class and out of 16 students 4 are girls for example. Actually if you live in Argentina I know where you can find a lot lol.

>I'ts not just liking something, it's being good at it.
I was talking about the whole having eccentric taste in art, didn't realize you meant producing. Yes many girls will be impressed by that. Though if you're unattractive it won't matter. That's something that can easily be worked on though

>>18275381
Well it's not my full time job and I don't want it to be. Lets not forget this anon's hobby was programming, which is most of gamedev. I don't see where you're going anon

>>18275354
>Why?
I just love programming.

>>18275394
I'm a CS student too but out of the few girls in my class (about 10%), most are taken and none are truly passionate about programming

>Yes many girls will be impressed by that
It's apparent, most people (guys or girls) that come to know about this are impressed by it, but just as friends.

>Though if you're unattractive it won't matter
I don't find myself particularly unattractive, but that might be a side product of this sudden huge ego boost i've experienced.

>That's something that can easily be worked on though
Mind getting into details?

>>18275274
>Lots of girls are programmers (me included).
I mean if you're actually a female programmer more power to you, but let's not pretend there isn't an overwhelming gender disparity.

>>18275436
At least you're not a computer engineer. In my school there was quite a disparity but still a fair amount of girls. Go fishing at your local women in engineering club and see what you catch

>>18275439
>At least you're not a computer engineer.
I'm actually a mech engineer major. Last I checked it's generally <10% women as a rule of thumb, and there seem to be even fewer in other specializations. I just always found it weird how people downplay the fact it's overwhelmingly male.

>>18275461
It just is what it is. The people who care are in the women in engineering club. Computer science definitely has more than engineering though, that's all I'm saying

>>18275436
I said lots of girls are programmers, that's true even if there's gender disparity. I know a whoole bunch of them. It might be different in my city though, who knows? There was this linuxchix thing I was invited to, all women, very passionate about the topic.

>>18275422
Well let's see, I can't give much advice without knowing what you look like. But in my experience in most cases when a guy is ugly it's because he simply doesn't bother. If you're not fat, dress well and have a good hairstyle, that's usually enough IMO. There's some other details like facial hair but that's more person specific. Asking friends or the internet for specific advice should help a lot.

Do women like men that act aggressively or assertively?

>>18275495
Assertively

>>18274978
Like with every other kink I have I would be hesitant to admit it until I'm sure the guy is into it too. Something about calling a guy daddy is especially embarassing, I guess because it implies daddy issues. With my bf I pretended to not be into it initially, but now all I call him is daddy.

>>18275495
Assertively, men can easily get scary when they're aggressive

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>>18275277
There's a question at the top

>>18275495
Assertive in public, aggressive in the sheets.

Can any girls in here rate what you find attractive in men?
ex:
1. face
2. body
3. job
4. personality

>>18275637
1. Wit
2. Intelligence
3. Charme
4. Body in general
5. Face
6. Personality

Then all the rest.

Girl I see as the person closest to me and take out every now and then has a tendency to just ignore my messages. Not the "I'll get back to you later, I'm busy" kind, but downright ignoring as she's online and messaging other people for hours on end.

We've talked before about how we should be open about our issues to each other and we've actually spoken about a few, but neither of us spoke of this and I feel like a hassle to make a big deal of this.

Still nags at me though, as if I'm not good enough or became too much of a bore to her. Should I bring it up, easing my mind at the risk of pushing hers over the edge?

>>18275645
What do you find attractive on male body?

>>18275653
how do you know she is messaging other people

>>18275654
Obviously, not being overly thin, fat or muscular is a good start.
My favourite kind of guy is average and proportionate, with some muscles and some fat.

I prefer guys who are taller than me and bigger than me in general.
I like pale skin a whole lot.
I like some hair.

Collarbones, arms, neck, hands, chest are the things that usually grab my attention in guys.
A good posture also helps.

Also - being well dressed

>>18275661
She talks about her chats afterwards, when we do talk/meet/whatever

>>18274131
Girls just don't want a guy who feels sorry for himself or talks about his problems since it implies weakness. God blessing all the trap niggas.

Girls, do you like dancing?
What dance and why (and how)?

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>>18272863
>BF takes 45 min to finish.
> Been together for 4 years soon, he was a virgin and the first time lasted one and a half hours.
>thought the time would get shorter when i gtet to know his body more. prostata stim. clawing the whole shabam.
i come 3-4 min innto the bangorang but now i kinda got to hold it back cus it distracts him and he got to "start over" in his head.
>My pussy gets dry and raw, mouth tired and asshole ruined. GIve him 2-3 handjobbs(still 45 min) a day just to get my pussy some rest.
>Stopped asking for oral cus he gets horny and bam there goes my afternoon.
>Probably spend 2/3 of my free time trying to make him come.
>Asked if i could play darksouls or something whiole he was pounding me, Made it last twice as long.
>Hate the fact that this is slowly makeing me loath having sex with him, finding more excuses not to bang, cant even cuddle without bonertown now. He allso fucks me while im sleeping, i dont mind but kinda annoying when it lasts to long.

>Want to spend the rest of my life with him, but my body simply cant.
mfw never gonna have a quicky at work or in public.
What do ?

Appologies for my bad grammar.

Girls (And guys i guess)

Have you ever cheated on someone? Why?

I'm only 19 and the shitty "red pill" perspective about women is beggining to get to me and I don't like it at all. How do I keep myself pure?

It just feels like according to red pill absolutely everything is trash and I honestly don't want to live like that so i try to not pay attention to it yet my experiences in life have been pretty shitty regarding love and women in general so I feel like a crazy person denying he's crazy

I'm not trying to bait anyone into a shitty gender hate circlejerk but I honestly need someone older and more experienced to tell how things really are

>>18274237
you're being just as autistic as he is

>>18273150
he needs to move the fuck on instead of rageposting about some 4/10 ghosting him

>>18274237
and you seem to think that blocking/avoiding someone without giving any reason is acceptable behavior from a normal person

>>18273382
depends on which part of england, essex is generally great, posh sounds faggoty, cockney sounds retarded

it's a mixed bag

>>18273401
post a picture

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>>18275862
not that anon but i have the same question / problem. pls no bully ;_;

i have lost some weight since this pic btw but its the only one i have

>>18275874
shave your mustache and you look totally fine, problem isn't your looks, tell me more about yourself

>>18275877
i used to get bullied relentlessly when i was in middle school and it really fucked up my social skills. i changed schools after that but the problems still persisted. i had a mental breakdown after highshool and have been a neet ever since. i just feel so disgusting, whenever i talk to people i just imagine them thinking im repulsive and i cant look anyone in the eyes. i cant make friends, i have no idea what normal people talk about. the only people i ever talk to are my mom and dad. im just in my room all day with my dog. been like this for 4 years now (im 21). had the typical suicide thoughts / attempts and all that.

>>18275891
rough stuff

how often are you out of the house?

you won't find a waifu in your room, what kinds of things get you outside

>>18275874

Shave the tash and grow your hair a little bit. You look like a baby face trying to look older, but I don't think you have a baby face at all

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>>18275895
very very rarely. i used to go to the gym almost daily for a few months and i actually got into pretty decent shape. but other than that i just play dota and read all day. i just realized how pathetic this is as i type it out. i had a job for a few months but i ended up having another breakdown and quit.
>>18275899
that is a slightly older pic. my hair is longer now and i dont have the facial hair anymore.

i found this more recent pic. my hair is just a little shorter than it is in this one now.

>>18275905

Yeah, you're absolutely fine. I would even go as far as to say good looking. It's probably more to do with how you present yourself.

>>18275905
>>18275874
>always looks sad
you're a good-looking guy, but if you look depressed that's not attractive.

>>18275905
nice you look 1000x better with longer hair and shaved mustache, honestly 7-8/10 looks

out of interest I'll ask your MMR and what genres you read

do you play dota with any irl friends or only randoms/people you only know online?

what job did you have?

last and most importantly, do you know the cause of your breakdowns?

>>18275912
>>18275914
i get asked almost every time i go out in public. even when im just grocery shopping people come up to me and ask me if im ok. i guess it shows more than i think...
>>18275915
mmr ~3500 i dont play very seriously, mostly solo, sometimes with people i know from highschool but i only play dota with them nothing else. we're not really friends just know each other
im reading dubliners atm, mostly read fiction
i was a driver for a dental lab. i would pick up/deliver work to/from the lab and the dentist offices.
the cause of my breakdowns is mostly anxiety and based on how self image
i cant describe the feeling i get sometimes but i look at myself in the mirror and just cant take it
i would give anything to be in another body, to be somebody else. and if i feel this way looking at myself then i cant image what any girl would see in me.

>>18275935
*asked if im ok, if i need help every time i go out in public

>>18275935
are you generally sad or just sad looking

what are your favorite heroes/favorite role

the anxiety that causes breakdowns is solely based on your self image or are there other things

>talk to girl on tinder for a whole week
>go out on a whim on friday night
>says she hasn't done anything like that before (tinder tat least anyway)
>get drinks
>talk nonstop for like 3-4 hours, have a great time
>kiss
>go back to mine and have sex
>she leaves because she had work the next morning
>message her later the next day, get 2 replies
>didn't get a reply from her for 2 days now

I don't get it, we had such a good time. how come she won't even reply?

I'm an Asian guy and I've noticed that this thicc white girl keeps staring at me. Should I talk to her? I'm kind of apprehensive.

It's strange because I typically prefer sticc Asian girls, but damn.

>>18275935
>>18275937
well there's your problem. have you tried getting professional help? sounds like there's more than an online imageboard can solve.

>>18275935
>dubliners
Good taste. I hope you're enjoying it. My favorite stories were Araby and Eveline(?).

>>18275943
yeah sure, why wouldn't you

>>18275942
maybe she just wanted sex and now she doesn't care anymore
maybe she didn't plan on sleeping with you and feels bad that she did
maybe she has other shit on her mind, it's only been two days
who the fuck knows.

>>18275940
mostly play ta mid or void/timbersaw offlane
i am generally sad. the anxiety is based off selfimage mostly. i feel like im not worthy of being loved. i just want someone to love and spend time with. i see other couples together and i just want what they have. the way their girlfriends look at them, with such love and admiration. i try not to be a jealous person but it honestly breaks my heart. i want to be a part of that. i want to know what that feels like.
>>18275947
i have thought about it but im not sure i could say this to another person face to face. part of me
has just completely given up trying to get better.
>>18275948
ty. ye i am enjoying it. planning to read ulysses next

>>18275951
she said everytime she did something like that before (meetup off tinder or whatever) she flaked/chickened out but she actually did it this time, not sure what that means

>maybe she didn't plan on sleeping with you and feels bad that she did

elaborate?

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>>18275951
>yeah sure, why wouldn't you
Here's the problem: I don't sit next to her in class, and I'm too shy to go directly to her, you feel? I even get anxious at the thought of people hearing me talk to someone else, and this doesn't pertain just to that one specific girl, either.

Does my haircut look ok?

>>18275956
>she said everytime she did something like that before (meetup off tinder or whatever) she flaked/chickened out but she actually did it this time, not sure what that means

Sounds like she'd been wanting to hookup for a while, always chickened out but this time followed through. It happens and I've done it too.

>>18275955
look mate i'm with you 100% in sympathy, but you're not going to find a grill in your room

while you were working out, did you see any improvement in your self image? I felt that from personal experience, but we're all different

I feel that you should make a commitment to yourself to do something simple at first, no need to rush. Go to the gym once a week and get a part time job.

Simple goals to get you out of the house and a progression toward full time employment.

You're still young, don't feel like you're fucked on time, you have over a decade of youth ahead of you still, but you have to get outside if you want to enjoy any of it.

I hope you're maxing reactive armor first, you can get heart regen at like 9 minutes if you have a wave hitting you with level 3/4 reactive armor. It drives me up a wall when I see people not abusing the shit out of it

>>18275961
your haircut looks fine you filthy gook

>>18275971
thanks man, I'm just not used to having short hair
>>18275955
Have you read portrait yet?

>>18275976
how long was it?

I've never seen an asian male with shoulder length hair, if you have any pictures of that i'd be interested in seeing it

>>18275328
gym less, icecream more

>>18275978
Not that long. I've always kept it at medium-length.

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>>18275985
aight

>>18275969
i did have some. i mean it was obvious, i clearly had more defined muscles and my body looked like i was in shape. ive been meaning to get back as it was a new years resolution but... occasionally i plan to get a job somewhere where i would be forced to talk to strangers so i could just get used to it, but im never able to follow through. how the fuck do i make that first step. my other job was basically thrown at me by my dad.
and yeah i max armor first, dive towers all day. being unkillable is so much fun.
>>18275976
no this is actually my first joyce

>>18275825
how old are both of you?

>>18275990
26 and 30

>>18275825
hes gay, cheating on you, or fapping way too much

>>18275988
>and yeah i max armor first, dive towers all day
thank god

the first step is the hardest

to me you have two main ways of getting outside, those being gymming and working

gym is likely the easier of the two, you don't really have to interact with other people, just be around them. Plus everyone is in their own little world in the gym, focused very inwardly. For this particular step, I doubt you will have much trouble, just start off by going to the gym once a week. Commit to a certain day to hold yourself accountable. If the social anxiety is holding you back even then, you could find a 24 hour gym and go at a strange time (2AM on a Sunday, I guarantee you will be the only motherfucker there) I've also noticed that almost nobody goes to the gym on friday/saturday evenings, so you might try then if you want to avoid people.

As far as work goes, you will have to speak to someone at some point, the question is how frequently. Every job under the sun will require a job interview, but I suspect you could handle that. From your answers, it seems to be the frequent interaction with strangers (customers) that gets to you. There are plenty of entry level jobs out there that don't require you to interact with customers. Chefs/chef's assistants don't have to interact with customers at all, but they do have to interact with coworkers. Then there are other jobs like truck driving (which makes fucking bank by the way) wherein after the training/interview, you don't really have to interact with anyone if you don't want to.

I would personally recommend you find a happy medium between the isolated, trucking tier job and the social barista tier one. I think you should start by asking your parents about job types, they know a lot more about you than people on a Mongolian horesbacking forum.

I think that your parents would be very excited to hear that you have interest in getting out into the world again, and would be more than happy to give you impetus (sproink)

>>18276002
ok you have convinced me to get back into the gym. im a member of 24 hour fitness and i used to go at night when its empty. was pretty cool. i will start off with just that for a while and i will eventually begin looking for a job. im sure i could find something decent.

i still have no clue where im supposed to meet women. is it socially acceptable to ask out women you work with? what about cute girls you see in public. it may sound autistic but i literally have no idea.

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My GF is mad at me because I don't reciprocate her messages. I read but I don't know what to answer, I stated it to her and she answered she always answers even if she doesn't have anything to say. She now refuses to answer on everything I send.

What do I do?

>>18276018
Not replying at all? That's pretty rude.

>>18276015
yeah it's very normal to date coworkers, and yeah if you see a qt walking by and want to talk to her, go for it, both are totally acceptable

The idea generally of getting outside is that your chances of encountering a female increase astronomically. What are the odds you meet a waifu playing dota vs the odds you meet a qt at the gym? The more time you are outside, the more likely you are to meet someone.

Work is a great place to meet friends and shit as well

>>18276022
I guess that's true yeah. There's a really beautiful blonde girl who works at the albertsons near me. Is it ok if I walk up to her and just tell her i thought she was beautiful and wanted to talk to her? or do i need to come up with something more clever? Do women like it if youre very foward?

>>18275994
>>18275996
Wait, I've never had a girlfriend, but do people really fuck their girlfriend whilst they're asleep? That baffles me.

Isn't that called rape or something

>>18276030
I mean, if both partners are fine with it it isn't rape.

>>18276029
Depends on the girl, but for the love of god don't do that. Just talk to her and maintain the conversation. Ask her out as you leave.

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>>18276021
She usually tells me a long poem story, I answer as thoroughly and honestly as I can. I might give one-worded answers, but I don't know, I am not trying to ignore or to be rude or something.

I once wrote her "Sometimes I don't know what to answer", and today after I asked her if she is still mad. Last time I wrote "OK, I got it", she didn't answer and told the exact the same phrase I told about not knowing what to answer, like parody or something.

So, what do I do?

>>18276031
But how does the girlfriend I've consent if she's asleep? Couldn't that be used against you for rape charges?

>>18273156
>Ladies, would you date a guy who has a female roommate?
Yeah, I am currently.

>>18273454
Yes, it certainly will.

>>18276032
>but for the love of god don't do that
Sorry but dont tell her i think she's pretty? Fuck man what am i supposed to talk about? How do i start a random conversation with someone?

>>18276037
I don't verbally consent every time I have sex.
My SO knows that in general I don't mind being waken up to have sex.

>>18273463
Personally, even if I had that kind of money I wouldn't spend it on that (I want a personal library more desu). I find visible logos very tasteless, and to be honest designer clothing goes nowhere near my personal style. But I wouldn't really notice or think anything of you, really. So neutral with a hint of "gee, how crass and tasteless" and certainly not impressed or jealous.

>>18273471
Yes. Yes it is. Moustaches are imo the worst facial hair trend men ever came up with.

>>18276042
Don't even worry about coming up with pick up lines, or flat out telling she's pretty.

You're overthinking it. Conversations are suppose to be natural, and the best advice I can give you is to talk to her as if she were a guy. But be sure to make your intentions clear by asking her out on a date.

>>18276042
Compliments are a terrible opener.

Comment on whatever you're doing together, if she seems into the conversation ask her about herself and be a bit playful and flirty. At this point, you can compliment.

>>18273578
>How interested would you be in meeting up with a random guy on the internet to just get your pussy eaten out?
A solid very not interested/don't want to get raped and murdered.

>>18274022
>Girls, what do you think is "feminine penis" and what do you think about guys who say that?
Feminine penis is pre op traps. I think they're gay in denial.

>>18276043
How do I get to this point with a girl? Are relationships worth it?

I'm 18 and totally clueless when it comes to relationships.

>>18274181
Racemixing is rare, but honestly don't have kids. It sounds like you're a shitty person.

>>18276036
Bump.

To femanons:

How would you react if your SO had a hand fetish? Because I have one and I love touching and gazing upon dainty hands and slender fingers.

>>18274709
>Are girls impressed with eccentric taste in music / art / film or do they just think you're weird
Depends if you're a wanker about it. I like a lot of unusual and arthouse films and music, but I'm very down to earth in my demeanour. What do you like?

>>18276054
I don't know, I love my relationship.
He just told me he is horny when he comes home from work late at night and I know that he sleeps better after we fuck. So I either let him wake me up or wait for him according to his schedule.

>>18275328
>I'm a 8/10 Entj guy very masculine and agressive looking.
Stop looking so aggressive facially? Smile? Although the MBTI thing is a horrorscope, if that decriptor is accurate try NOT being an ass?

>>18275495
>Do women like men that act aggressively or assertively?
Assertively, sometimes. But I'm not into masculine guys so not really. Aggressive, definitely not. Instant write off.

>>18276058
creeped out desu

>>18276068
For real? Guess I'll just have to keep it a secret, then.

>>18275637
1. Intelligence
2. Wit
3. personality
4.creativity and passions
5.face
6.hair
7.body
I don't care about jobs.

>>18276030
It's better than haveing to wake up and do shit so he can finish.
Tho when guys fuck you when you"sleeping" they kinda forget that it fucking hurts without some kind of lube.

But no it's not rape if you agree on it beforehand, and he stops if you ask(but you dont ask, cus then they get whiney and go about guilt tripping you til you do something.)

>>18275839
Red Pill men are the most irritating twats on earth. You want a surefire way to NEVER find a quality girl? That ideology.
I'm a girl, and no I've never cheated.

>>18276058
I've put up with feet fetishes, I'd put up with a hand fetish. I don't really care what you're into provided it's not illegal or anything to do with the butt.

>>18275637

1. Wit/the ability to make me laugh
2. Face
3. Body
4. Height
5. Job (more specifically, the ability to hold one down, not necessarily the type of job)

>>18275996
Maybee the fapping is to blame, he was a lifeless virgin til i meet him when he was 26.

And i can imagen him fapping with he same sexual energy he has now, maybee he got desensitised?

>>18276071
>(but you dont ask, cus then they get whiney and go about guilt tripping you til you do something.)
Afraid not senpai. Guys aren't as whiny as you think, unless you're dating a whiny bitch.

>>18276075
I'm 5'11". Am I a manlet?

>>18276079

Not in my eyes. I consider under 5ft10 to be manlet land, so you would pass.

is being a snarky, and sometimes occasionally witty, man unattractive? it's unintentional desu

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>>18275981
>>18276065
Can confirm, it did work today.
Just going through a bad patch I guees
Thanks goise. Might be because I've laid off the sauce too and the body is adapting to it

>>18276086
>is being a snarky, and sometimes occasionally witty, man unattractive?
Wit is very attractive, but snarkiness isn't.

>>18276086
I personally like it.

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>>18276036
>>18276018

Ehh, bump.

>>18276101
>that receded hairline

guys, say you're about to lose you're virginity (or at least do some dick related activity for the first time with a partner) would you shave your pubes?

>>18276123
nah man, just trim and keep it neat. Gl in your vcard quest.

>>18275637
1. Personality
2. Job
3. Body
4. Face

>>18276167
I'm a girl, I was just worried that my boyfriend would feel pressured to shave, cause I really like pubic hair

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>>18276058
Flirted with a guy online once who had this fetish, but when he saw my hands he blocked me ;_;
>fucking disgusting tiny sami hands!

>>18276123

I do that regularly since it makes it feels good to touch the bits that are usually covered in hair and with no pubes it looks bigger

>>18276173
Then talk to him?
Just say " hey boytoy dont go cuttin dat jungle cus im gonna eksplore it."

>>18276058
that's turbo tame and I'd give him handjobs

For someone who hasn't been on any sort of date in years, how would I go about initiating sex? I have a girl coming over tomorrow night. We're both single and in our 20s so I can see her being open to it. I'm just so behind on everything.

>>18275825
You need to have an honest discussion with him and let him know that the way you guys are having sex is not going to work. Sex isa supposed to be something intimate between the two of you, not something that you begrudgingly put up with. It definitely shouldn't be something painful that you hate because this will destroy our relationship. The problems with your sex life will start to manifest in other places.

i think a friend of mine has feelings for me because she gives me signs but when i ask her if she does she says no (with messages)
i send her i'm not convinced and ask her if she's allright with it if i pin her to a wall and not softly and just keep her there until i'm convinced and ask it right in her face because it's anoying she says shes fine with that.

would a girl ever agree to a guy doing that without her having feelings ?
and i do like her so what do i do

>>18276058
I wouldn't mind. Doubt he'd like my hands much though

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>Girls
Can you be made to cum against your well?
Foe example if you're tied up while massaging you clitoris or using a vibrator?

>>18276292
Yeah? cant see why someone wouldnt

>>18276203
Wow, thanks annon. You may just have saved my relationship.

Thanks

What is even the point of trying to find someone if you arent some 6'3, maserati driving, 1% body fat, alpha male chad? How do you know when youre good enough for someone else, because i keep on improving myself and its never enough.

>>18276303
Then way can't you orgasm in bed?

I've read girls have no cooldown for orgasms, so... Why the fuck to you not masturbate all the time every day? It's literally an infinite pleasure generator.

>>18276337

Do you think everybody in a relationship is a 6ft3 billionaire Chad chaddington?

Ask yourself - what are you looking for in a person? Then ask yourself what a person like this would look for and what you could offer them. If you can't think of anything you can offer then the problem lies with you.

I think you're being slightly unrealistic though. All sorts of people manage to find partners and the vast majority of them aren't rich, 10/10 chads.

>>18275645
>>18276070
>intelligence that high
Why do you lie?

>>18276075
>>18276172
These sound real and why I have no gf.

>>18276491
>Why do you lie?
I don't. It's one of the few deal breakers I have - cannot date someone noticeably more stupid than me.

>>18274323
There is nothing wrong with living with your parents. It seems like you are taking the right steps to better your life, and that's all that really matters.

Is my 5.9 inch dick enough for most girls?

>>18276468
This is not really true. First of all it depends on the woman, for some achieving multiple orgasms actually is hard and/or not that satisfying.

I have no trouble coming a couple of times in a row but it depends on how horny I am and other factors how much I want to come. Yeah usually it's possible to go for yet another round if you really have to. But if your heart isn't in it anymore, it's a lot of work just for an orgasm that was not as great as the one you just had already.

This isn't for nothing, either, if orgasms didn't do anything about your level of sexual desire then you could never feel fulfilled.

>>18276521
Then how do you feel about a guy that's living with his parents even though he have a job and can afford to live on his own?

>>18276475
>If you can't think of anything you can offer then the problem lies with you.
The problem is I cant offer anything chad couldnt offer and chad also makes more money, is more physically attractive etc

I'm just teally tired of not being good enough and have gone through so much fucking effort to change myself and im still alone, i've bought better fitting clothes, hit the gym, changed my hair, did all this shit so its not like i havent been putting in the work and my effort is all for naught.

>>18276523
Yes.

>>18276036
>long poem story
Cringy as fuck.

>>18276046
STOP OPPRESSING MEN!

I'm at an impasse with this girl, we have know each other close to a year and have flirted and gotten to know each other, finally had sex to break some tension a week ago and she tells me she wants to try a relationship with some guy now. How can I convince her she's retarded and I'm good relationship material?

Could friend zoning her to increase desire work? I have no trouble going on dates with other girls, but I want HER and only her. I mean I got in there once, it can't be impossible to grow some love, can it?

>>18276507
I'm significantly more intelligent than you, though.

>>18276531
I guess it would depend on why you are still living with your parents when you can afford not to.

>>18276551
That's good for you.

>>18276552
Why spend money on rent?
And my work is very close to my parents house.

>>18276562
You're supposed to comment on if being significantly more intelligent is still attractive. *sigh*

>>18274696
You sound like a friend of mine.

Stop being a bitch and go get laid, why do you easymode assholes have to try to artificially make your lives miserable when you have it good?

>>18276676
It might be, yes. Unless you are the kind of person that makes people uncomfortable.

>>18275860
>essex is generally great

Oh lawd

>>18276634
So that you can establish some sort of independence? I'm sure you could find something reasonably priced around your work.

>>18276731
>establish some sort of independence
I buy groceries, help around the house and got my own room.
What do I need other than that?

>>18276731
You meant "establish some sort of debt".

>>18276743
If it works for you, that's all that matters.
I've been living on my own for quite a while now, and much prefer it to living with my parents. But that's just my take on it.

>>18276752
The only debt that I have is student loans. And I manage that pretty effectively.

What do when you tell a girl we should hang out, she's down for it, but asks me "what do i think about inviting <mutual friend>"?

I'm also chatting to this mutual friend simultaneously, but hanging out with both of them might be a synced cockblock.

New thread: >>18276777

>>18276774
Or it could be a synced bootycall, resulting in a threesome

>>18272920
Been in a relationship with a girl for 3 years - initially wasn't LDR til I moved to go to university. We usually just talk about what we've done that day, things happening in the world or philosophical discussion and when we do meet up IRL we don't need to talk about anything cos we can do things instead.

Like some other anon mentioned, being able to sit in silence with someone and not feel awkward about it is a sign you have a good relationship.

>>18276784
>>18276774
doubt it, i'm not experienced at all, looking for a way to make it work 1x1 before anything else

should i just tell her i think we should go by ourselves?

Ladies. Are buzz cuts a
no go? I love having one. My hair sucks for styling. Are they considered unattractive or "lazy"?

>>18276532
nigga how many fuckin chads do you think there are in the world

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xp-PENvptu0

look at this motherfucker, this is some german dude who has a tutorial youtube channel on solving fucking puzzles.

do you think he's chad? absolutely fucking not. but what's that thing you notice wrapped around his left ring finger?

that's right, Mr. Puzzle is married. What on Earth is your excuse? What is bitching about chad and reeing on an anonymous Taiwanese fishing advice forum going to accomplish for you.

You might not be a chad, you might not be super buff, you might not be very tall, you are probably incredibly autistic. But I guarantee you that you are more alpha than Mr. Puzzle.