20y/f here
been single for the past 2 years
ive gone on tons of dates but i just cant get it to go on after that stage
a lot of guys have interest in me, they start talking to me we go on dates etc..
what im getting at is
im good looking, fit,
but i also am introverted, shy and very quiet when im getting to know someone
is it just too much effort to be bothered?
how do you guys know whos gf material?
Depends on what you mean by fit, you most likely have an inflated ego from all the thirsty children trying to bang you on a daily a basis and a guy who any respect for himself probably thinks you're not putting any effort into the conversation.
As the saying goes, it takes two to tango.
>>18271930
>shes not relationship retarded
>we want the same relationship
>we have similar interests, experiences, desires, ...
M-maybe we can be f-friends anon
>>18271993
This
Ya, its very likely you aren't as attractive as you believe
Post pic with the eyes blacked out so we can assess this situation
dating is the process of getting to know someone until you find an issue with them you can't tolerate. if you can't find one, you stay.
that means that along the way, you display red flags that makes all those guys lose interest.
tell me a bit more about yourself to see where the problem is. this requires you to actually wanting to solve this and not just attentionwhore on adv.
are you going to school/ working?
what do you do with your life outside of that?
what are your political views?
how do you dress?
how were your previous relationships like?
how's your relationship with family?
>>18271930
You are 20. No guy wants to get to know you, he takes you out to fuck. He doesn't get laid or knows he'll need to work for pussy, he's gone.
Just be patient and enjoy the dating scene, you'll meet a decent guy and you both will know it.