Using porn to last longer in bed

>>18269061
Try watching different porn.

Porn damages the brain. I quit lesbo porn for this reason, I'm a female. Somehow now I notice the opposite sex much more, it's nice actually.

>>18269348
Is it objectively true that porn really is bad for you?

>>18270027

Yes.

Read the books The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sex Secrets Every Man Should Know

and The Sex God Method.

Porn is like candy. Once in a bluemoon, whatever, but all the time leads to serious consequences.

The problem is that porn rewires your brain and disconnects you from your ability to really connect with women. You view them as the girls you look at on your screen.

Also the camera angles and everything really fuck with your ability to have real sex.

Just avoid porn and you'll realize how helpful it is to avoid it.

When you avoid porn, you don't put women on a pedestal because you're not constantly looking at super amazing camera angles of their perfect asses. You lay down naked next to a girl after not watching porn for a long time and you feel much more relaxed because you see it for what it really is, just another human laying next to you.

If you want to last longer, practice. But practice without porn. Imagine sex to be like kung fu.

So this is where masturbating/edging becomes extremely helpful. Edging/masturbating without porn is literally sexual kung fu training.

You should consider this: Limit ejaculations to once every 4-5 days max. But in between ejaculation days, edge daily in the shower. Imagine your crush is in the shower with you. Visualize yourself fucking her in the future, how would it go down?

You start by kissing, she starts jerking you off, she gives you head, you fuck her long enough so she cums, then maybe fuck her some more, and then if you know you should save your energy by not ejaculating just reach a near-ejaculate orgasm and stop completely.

Use thrusts, practice deep breathing, visualize success. Set a timer for 10-20 minutes so you prove to yourself you're capable of lasting long. Try to practice going really fast and being able to last long and switch paces.

>>18270122

This plus hold off on cumming for 2-4 days before a date then jack off 1-2 hours before the date. This helps you have enough energy to have sex later, but not a loaded gun.

The lasting long during jacking off thing works and edging works too. Your dick needs to be exercised just like your arms to remain big and strong, so try to maintain a 10 minute edge/erection at least once a day and stay away from the porn.

saw palmetto also helped me. It's like God's gift to men. It's a berry but you can buy it powdered in capsules. It boosts testosterone, libido, hair and muscle growth, and more.

>>18270122
Not op, but did you actually manage to become multi orgasmic?

I've been trying on and off for years the whole "holding at the right moment" thing, but all I manage is retrograde ejaculation, where I lose the orgasm and the boner, or ejaculating tiny bits at a time, but without orgasm.

Honestly, what works for me is exercise (cardio)

If I did not exercise that day, I usually come much faster than when I did. If I know I have a date that day I make sure to have a run earlier that day. Not so much that I'm exhausted but enough to get rid of some excess energy, making me less sensitive as a result.

>>18270147
Yeah it takes practice.

Reach a 9/10 then let out a big woosh of air and you'll feel the sensation go through your body and your endurance will be renewed. Repeat as necessary during sex.

Start fucking slowly and synchronize your breathing. When close to orgasm, change pace and make a woosh of air or say something like "yeeees" or "fuuuck" or "fuuck yesss."

It seriously works. Watch a James Dean video (for research) he does it.

>>18270027
No.

There are a few researchers saying it's bad (dude who wrote "the demise of guys"), but it is far from consensus within the medical community.

>>18270122
Not OP, but would jacking off to your gf's nudes be as bad as regular video porn?

[spoiler]What about text based porn games[/spoiler]

>>18270122
What constitutes porn, can I fap to insta ass still?

>>18270894

Nah that's not too bad. It honestly comes down to "will jacking off to this make me better or worse at sex?"

Jacking off to a girl you have sex with is probably fine because you know how to fuck her right IRL. It'd probably be best not to jack off if you're having regular sex so you can have more frequent and meaningful experiences with your gf.

>>18270985

No cause you'll most likely bust super quick to bust a nut at the sight of pulling down a IRL girl's pants in your bed.

Porn is anything that is supposed to stimulate erotic feelings. So looking at insta porn is going to make you view above average looking girls as goddesses and it's going to throw you off when you're about to fuck a hot girl. You're gonna be way too excited and not be able to relax and last long.

I watched a lot of porn and jerked of a ton before I lost my virginity.
Couldn't finish my first time and takes a long time for me to finish now.

So yes, watch porn and masturbate a lot to last longer.

>>18271014

How many girls have you had sex with who were above 7/10?

>>18271014
One, first girlfriend. Arguably 9/10.
And out of two girls total at 19, I'm ok with that.
The other being maybe 7/10 if you're into hispanic girls

>>18271028
>>18271022

>>18270122
What if I masturbate almost exclusively to trannies and anime futanari girls

I've only had sex twice but I kept going for like 30 min and never came.

I think porn turned me into a sex god. I'm literally at the sweet spot where I'm kinda gay now so girls dont make me cum but I'm still attracted to women so I stay erect

>>18271028
You're only 19? You're still developing your sex hormones.

When I was your age (I'm 23 now) I could fuck the hottest girls in my high school without any effort or thought.

When I turned 21 I realized I couldn't be fucking my gf daily multiple times and cumming every time because it destroyed my energy, I felt like a zombie. I started reading Multi-Orgasmic man and Sex God Method and it changed my life.

It's not just lasting long, it's being able to connect with a girl emotionally spiritually and physically so well that you can make her orgasm on command and basically read her thoughts.

Enjoy your youth I feel so old at 23 >_>

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>>18271038
I guess you're right, I always had energy after.
Now I'm single and don't have any classes during finals so I'm rubbing one out 3-5 times a day out of boredom and still have energy.

>tfw no gf

>>18271055

>still have energy

So you're exercising at least five times a week, working on improving yourself, and not diminishing yourself?

How can you rub one out 3-5 times a day and still have the energy to be productive? Do you have any hobbies?

>>18271063
>exercising at least five times a week
I'll do ya one better bucko, 6 days a week.
>Do you have any hobbies?
Other than lifting, no

>>18271063
Not >>18271055, but I can do 3-5 a day if I'm really bored/have nothing to do and my roommate is out most of the day.

Alternatively if I'm spending the day with my gf we can go 1-3 times depending on how she feels.

I'm 19 tho, so that probably will go away in a few years.

>>18270027
No. Porn, is not intrinsically bad for everyone. Porn is bad for people that have issues with porn.

>>18270027
porn isnt bad, porn addiction is bad, just like alcohol addiction.

>>18271528

Somewhat true but I'd say the majority of porn viewers who aren't successful in their romantic lives should abstain from porn as much as possible. If all is well and you feel at peace with yourself and your life, watch all the porn you want.

If you got shit to get done then you know deep down you should not be wasting valuable energy on porn.

>>18269061
Keep rising brother. Try semen retention (hardmode) its cray cray