Having a kid w a boyfriend that I don't really have chemistry with.
We don't see eye to eye on important shit in life.
I'm more of a monogomous type and he hasn't gone through the hook up phase in life and he's told me if I wasn't pregnant he prob wouldn't be in a mono relationship.
Our relationship has been off and on since the beginning because of his ex girl.
Since I've been pregnant he hasn't rlly done anything for me and the child.
I can't trust him, I don't think he's a good provider and I think he's just lost on who he is in life. Kinda just wants to fuck around and not settle.
I just know for a fact he will never grow up or be the man I need for my child and I. He has even told me "maybe were not full term" while being pregnant.
We're in an argument once again and I really don't see the point of fixing things and putting myself out there all over again and I think at this point my mind won't let me love him anymore.
So, should I just break it off. Be ready to coparent and let him be as involved with the baby as he pleases and just not be intimate with him anymore? Or should I try to reconnect for the baby's sake (AGAIN)?
>>18268465
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>>18268510
Pls reply w Mac lyrics or else it's not relevant.
Next time use protection. #Fails
Reconnecting seems like a waste of effort. Focus on getting your life as stable as you can without him and don't expect support from him.
Abort that fucking baby.
Not having a stable father figure will irreversibly fuck a child up.
You and your kid will both live miserably for the remainder of your life if you do this. Of course, if you follow through with the pregnancy, at least your horrible choice won't go without severe punishment.
>>18268671
Bump
>>18268685
Yes and remember that having a kid is literally equivalent to having 18 years or more of probation