Wtf do I do? My gf has been complaining lately about it, she usually cums but I don't and she gets sore
Don't jack off or have sex for a week or more. Or however long you need.
Ask for her to edge until you get there. Not only it's fair, it's smoking hot when they finally release themselves
Also reduce jerking off, I noticed I stopped naturally and an improvement on my sexual apetite.
>>18268369
Drop porn.
Don't jerk off. That's really all you can do.
>>18268369
Can't you just stop once she comes, and then jerk off later on your own time?
>>18268369
Prep work.
When you're about to fuck, jack off a little before to make the difference, or get your girl to suck your dick until you're fairly close.
Don't worry too much about it, there are lots of people who don't cum every time, and it's really not that bad of a situation. Stressing tends to make it worse.
If she's not already, get her on the pill and go bareback. It might not make much of a difference, but ride this as an excuse.
Try different positions to see if anything puts more pressure on you and less on her.
Honestly, I tried the not masturbating thing and it never worked for me.
>>18268369
Google "ejaculatory incompetence" It's a terrible name, but a common enough problem.
>>18268369
Are blowjobs not an option in this...?