Basically my father wants me to go with him to visit his very sick parents during the summer. I know it would be selfish if I refused. But the reason I don't wanna go is because I feel forced by him to go, like a little boy. While my younger sister doesn't care at all about them and she gets away with that behaviour (he still respects her etc).
Should I go despite all this bullshit or be petty and say "no, if my sister doesn't need to come neither do I."
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>>18268051
You're feeling of stubbornness will wear off sooner than the guilt of not going to see your sick grandparents. Go see them, you won't regret that.
>>18268051
Why would you complain about being treated like a little boy if you think like one?`
She doesn't care about them, hence doesn't go. It's the best choice for her. Do you care about them? Then go. You don't? Don't go.
>>18268051
>be petty
I don't know, do you really want to be petty like your sister? Do you not even really consider how much harder this is on your dad? I don't care if you give a shit about your grandfather, that's your dad. If your dad was sick would you skip out on visiting him just because your sister did?
>>18268051
you need to be at least 18 to post on this website
>>18268069
True statement, well you and all the other comments.
Thank you for your honest opinions. I needed to hear that.
>>18268097
Sometimes you just need other people to tell you you're being dumb. All good anon. Go be there for your dad if nothing else. He'll appreciate you more for it even if your sister isn't diminished in his eyes.