I have this girl in my life that my friends tell me I'm an idiot for. In the past, she was completely different person. She stole $400 dollars from me 4 years ago, but she was only 17. How do i make my friends see that she's different now, and that I love her and they should just support us? Please help. Thanks. She's super hot too.
Sounds like you are infatuated with what you imagine her as. It doesn't matter if she was 17 when she did it, you will always have that part of you that is on edge and worried she will clean you out and run off.
But i am just some random fuck on the internet, what do i know?
This is what being desperate must look like.
>How do I stop my friends from looking after me and just blindly support my horrible decisions
people dont change and once you get fucked over because she likely has no morals you'll realize it. It's quite ridiculous what a man will allow simply because she ha s a pretty face
Not to de-value your love, but please have some self-respect. I mean this in the kindest way possible, but please. Move on to someone who has never, and would never steal anything from you other than your heart. (and I don't mean that literally so stay away from creepy chicks)
>what? dump her ass
>She stole $400 dollars from me 4 years ago, but she was only 17
and your dumbass didn't even know her properly then
imagine what happens now that she is older and smarter, and will have your TRUST
think of how easy it will be for her to steal from you CONTINUOUSLY
fucking idiot
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You can go into this if you want, but there is no guarantee she wont fuck you over again. I made the mistake of taking in a guy who had freeloaded and stolen from me previously. He looked like he had changed (i.e. he had a car, a job, etc.) Soon as shit hit the fan at his work, everything fell apart and he made the house a shit environment. When I had to kick him out because he was draining me emotionally and financially, he acted like I was in the wrong. Asshole even tried to blackmail me.
Meanwhile, I got a lot of shit from friends and family for dating the girl who would become my wife. Nobody thought we were good for each other or that we would last. We're married 7 years now and going strong.
TL;DR Sometimes these kind of people look like they've changed until opportunity hits to fuck you over. Other times, you can be right about someone. Just depends on how much trust you have in this girl. Either way its a risk.