How to make it clear that I'm trying to date her?

>>18266630
You express your intentions, there's no shortcut to it. Ask her for a date, if she rejects and that deteriorates your existing relationship, you most likely dodged a bullet.

>>18266640
Is there any specific wording I should use? I've asked and have gone on things that I thought were clearly lunch/dinner dates before, but recently I've realized how many orbiters in my university do the exact same sorts of things with girls and never get anywhere.

>>18266653
>Is there any specific wording I should use?
There's no single correct answer here, but you have to show her that you're in it for real. How long have you known/worked together? If you've recently met, take your time, observe her for hints, but do not hesitate when you have the chance to ask.

>I've asked and have gone on things that I thought were clearly lunch/dinner dates before, but recently I've realized how many orbiters in my university do the exact same sorts of things with girls and never get anywhere.
Don't be afraid of this, you just have to make it clear what you want from the date, and judging by your posts there shouldn't be a problem with this.

I got myself a date for tomorrow after being in a somewhat similar situation as you. You won't lose anything if you tell her you want to date, just say fuck it and dive head first. That's how I went.

>>18266679
Thanks for the advice man, I'll give this my best shot.

>>18266640
Well put.