Is buying porn from camgirls cheaitng?

>>18265295
If you're never chatting/meeting/fucking the girl in question, in what way is it actually different from buying porn on some actress's website or something?

Or is there something you're not telling us?

>>18265311
>Or is there something you're not telling us?

Yes there's something I'm hiding from an anonymous message board. You caught me anon.

>>18265295
It's not cheating

>>18265295
Definitely gray territory. Yeah you aren't cheating but you are paying a chick for nudes. Just receiving another chicks nudes is pretty bad since it's a lot more personal than just pornhub.

>>18265334
How is it a grey area? If his gf never finds out then who cares?

>>18265340
If you have to hide something that isn't a bodily function then you should probably think if whether or not it's right or not.

>>18265343
She's probably going to cuckold him at some point, so there is nothing wrong with this. Also it's his money, not hers

It can be, depending what you define as cheating in your relationship. There's no universal answer. You're thinking it might be, so just ask? Or don't, let her find out on her own and enjoy the shitstorm you could have avoided.

>>18265340
>>18265347
>okay with cheating on their gf

>>18265315
I just mean if you're lying to yourself about not wanting to message this camwhore, maybe you're emotionally invested and trying to deny it by lying to anonymous strangers on the interent.

Dumber shit has happened.

>>18265354
Just because you sleep with another girl, doesn't mean it's cheating. Go back to Falador you faggot

>>18265295
Buying porn in this age is stupid.

Your current porn attitude will make thread like
>bf prefers porn more than sex, what do i do?
this in the future.

Get a grip man.

>>18265390
I felt stupider after reading this.

OP stated he's buying customized porn from a camgirl he likes. That's not really stupid. Buying generic porn titles when you dont even know whats in them is dumb. Getting custom videos from chicks you find hot for 20 bucks or so is an entertainment investment.

Of course if he spends more than 30 on it its a waste of money.

>>18265394
Porn is just something you use to have better fap and after the deed you disregart it all and continue to live your life. The moment you do this
>camgirl he likes
you are basically getting emotions you should seek from your girl. And that is IMHO anything, but healthy outlook on your porn material.

Imagine your gf getting dick pictures on facebook from people and getting off herself on it regurally. I would be very disturbed by it.

Drop your favourite pornstars / camgirls and if you must, switch to amatuer gendre with anonymous people.

>>18265295

How would you feel if it was your gf/wife buying pictures/videos of some guy online? This is a serious question, we don't know how your relationship works. If you'd be cool with it, then go for it. If not, reconsider.

Also porn is degenerate, stop jacking off to pixels.

>>18265295
If you were getting a girl you somehow were aware of from a friend to send you her cams for free you know that would be unacceptable. Paying for it doesnt make it any better just because you paid. Clearly there is something more personal about the cams in question.

What kind of simpleton still watches camgirls?

What's the difference between going to a porn store and purchasing a pornographic DVD and buying it from a cam girl. It's essentially the same thing and your chances of screwing either girl in the vids is basically 0. I know some girls would probably get mad as fuck if they found out about something like that but it really depends on the girl and the type of relationship. My gf doesn't care if I look at cam girls and shit as long as I'm not flirting with her or trying to hook up somehow. It's just some person somewhere that I'll never meet and we have no emotional or physical connection.

>>18265295
When you buy from cam girls are the vids personalized? Are you just buying a random vid or?

>>18265406
>Imagine your gf getting dick pictures on facebook from people and getting off herself on it regurally. I would be very disturbed by it.

This pretty much.

The weirdness comes from that fact that these are people you can interact with on some level.

If you tip a camgirl, she says your name. She interacts or at least acknowledges you. She makes it some level of personal. Fuck dude, this is EXACTLY why this shit is so popular.

This is no longer pure fantasy, this is a blurring of the lines that bleeds in to reality.

If you watch a porn, this shit is just a moving image on a screen with a chick who will never talk to you, you will never interact with in any way, who does not even know you exist. Fantasy stays 100% fantasy and never has any chance to become anything else (unless you're going to adult video conventions or some shit).

>>18265808
Exactly

>>18265295
you should be asking your gf what she thinks. but its ok, sooner or later you will leave your computer open, go to the shower, she will decide whether or not to look at your laptop, and then you will get divorce papers the next day or so. so yeah, whatever you do, divorce is inevitable.

>>18265808
But it ain't even real bro. You are there to get off not see what her dreams are. If it's personal then it's a problem. If it's not then I don't see the difference between it and any other form of pornography. Can you simply demand your partner to never masturbate anymore? That is just controlling and insecure as hell.

>>18265995
>But it ain't even real bro. You are there to get off not see what her dreams are. If it's personal then it's a problem. If it's not then I don't see the difference between it and any other form of pornography.

Uhh.... What? You're flip flopping all over the place there....

Yes, you are not there to see what her dreams are. But neither are you there to see what a strippers dreams are, or what a "happy ending" massage parlor girls are, or what a prostitutes dreams are.

Does that mean your girl would be cool with you going to see a prostitute? Or a massage parlor? Or a stripper?

Some girls might be, but a lot of girls aren't--which makes your point that "it's ok because you are not there to get to know them", completely fucking inane.

Anyway, the difference between porn and cam girl shit is accessibility and reliability.

For all intents and purposes, pornstars are 100% imaginary. They are basically "actors" pretending to be something in some fantasy setting, getting paid to shoot a scene. And it's basically impossible to interact with them.

Camgirls are trying to basically do the EXACT OPPOSITE. They are actively TRYING to build a rapport with their viewer base. They present themselves as accessible, as interactive, as real.

Do you really not see the difference there?

And how the fuck did you jump to "demand your partner never masterbates" Shut the fuck up if all you're going to do is stretch things and make bullshit up man.

>>18265295
>most definitely

so you would if you could?

just break up and give your gf the chance of meeting an decent guy

>>18266151
How can you even begin to relate seeing a cam girl naked to get off and seeing a prostitute to physically thrust your cock inside her vagina? Apples and oranges. Porn stars are not imaginary they exist IRL and if you masturbated to one of them for 5 years and met her at a convention that is 100% more real than anything involving some girl on a cam. Suck a fat retarded cock you dumb motherfucker. You can't understand the most basic shit.

>>18265457
>How would you feel if it was your gf/wife buying pictures/videos of some guy online? This is a serious question, we don't know how your relationship works. If you'd be cool with it, then go for it. If not, reconsider.

this.

nothing else really matters.

>>18266323
A cam model is not "some guy" online. He would be someone who virtually sells his sex appeal and media to people looking to pop a load. That's not the same as your girl buying nudes from some guy on facebook.