Sad first time

>>18263390
>any idea the cause of this
Sounds like performance anxiety. You just need to get out of your own head, stop being a nervous wreck, realize sex is a messy, imprecise, and unpredictable undertaking that almost never goes exactly how you want it to, and embrace the shit and just enjoy yourself.

Cheer up fucker. Some of us don't even have girls who like us enough to put our dicks in their mouths.

Normally I'd agree with >>18263407's diagnosis of performance anxiety, but 7 times in a row is unlikely to be just performance anxiety. She's probably also nervous and is tensing up.

>>18263413
If he's not hard enough to stick it in, that's a him problem, not a her problem.

>>18263439
If she's tense and not relaxed, that can also prevent penetration.

>>18263443
Except he didn't say that was the problem.

I guess the backstory to all this would really help explain some of this and probably answer my question lmao.. Long distance relationship, finally met up after about 3 years.. had a little over a week together to look around for a place to get for her to move in sometime over the next few months, so yeah this was a pretty big fuck up for a big moment

>>18263460
That doesn't mean it didn't contribute. They're both virgins, do you expect her to be completely comfortable with this or something? Have you even had sex before? No one is every 100% ready for their first time and no one knows what to expect; it's perfectly normal for BOTH of them to be nervous.

>>18263466
And more often than not, most people wind up having sex the first time they try to have sex. It's literally the most natural thing in the world. It's just as likely that she was perfectly comfortable and he's a nervous wreck than it is that both of them are nervous wrecks to the point of sexual dysfunction, particularly if he ADMITS TO WHAT THE PROBLEM IS.

What happened to you your first time that you insist it must have been the girl's fault?