I have a gf but im bi. Cant resist from being attracted with

>>18262845
Tell her.

>>18262855
Im afraid. What if she broke up with me?

She may break up with you. But that may depend on a bunch of things (will you ever be with a guy, do you want to, do you need to, can you spend your life with her and ignore your desires forever... etc). Maybe she would be into a poly thing later down the road though. You never know and you won't unless you find a way to tell her or talk to her about it. What is the point of being with someone if the relationship isn't honest and the other person does't even get a chance to see or know the real you? And why would you want to be with someone that doesn't like the person you are anyway? That makes no sense. Relationships only last anyway when there are no secrets anyway.

I see. Well in my situation. Im more into women. That explains why i have a gf. Im also physically attracted to her. What bothers me is that this feeling of mine being attracted with guys could be a predicament and may lead to break up. I dont want that to happen. I wont break with her no matter what. What i want is to get rid of this feeling so i can live normally as a man. With my gf.

>watch gay porn with girlfriend
>then start watching gay porn by yourself
>tell girl you probably began to be bi because of her
>profit

yeah, so what?
you're with her so stop window shopping. just because you look at men doesn't make it any different from keeping eyefucking other girls when you are in a relationship. it's disrespectful af. if you have to do it, do it so she doesn't notice. everything else puts you in the shit boyfriend tier area immediately.

>>18262845
im in the same boat as you but i was an asshole about it. my gf is open minded but i didn't want to risk our whole relationship because i wanted to suck dick every now and then...so i went behind her back and found a regular guy on CL that i have as a contact in my phone and i see every few months when i need a fix.
guilt crushed me for a year before i told her that i've "been wanting to try sucking" and she was all for it, telling me to explore how i felt and that she was supportive. she didn't want to come watch but she would come with me to support if i asked her. i felt torn, on one hand i finally had told her and she was all for it, on the other hand, i had been cheating on her with a man for the better part of 3/4 a year.
when i "finally found a guy to suck" it was the same guy i had been sucking

and now i see him every few months like normal and my gf is cool with it

im 24, shes 27

Threesomes are the answer op. Let her suck dick with you to sweeten the deal. That's some nice couple bonding.