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Why should I date?

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>college age
>haven't had a long term relationship
>still unsure how to act around women I like when I'm sober
>terrible texter
Part of me thinks i have a general dislike for women, although I'm definitely sexually attracted to them. It's a lot easier just to talk to/hang out with friends for company, and porn nullifies the sexual incentive to talk to women. I'm straight but struggle to find the motivation to approach women or talk to them unless they started talking to me. On the other hand, a part of me does want female company, and eventually a relationship, maybe just for societal reasons but I don't know how to tell. I guess the main question is how do I get the motivation to talk to more women?
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Pic unrelated but good meme
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You shouldnt, women are vile Savage beings. Sub-human filth that will just drag you down with them. Your better off living your life free from them.
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>>18256723
But what about passing on genes, and companionship? Men are generally designed to provide resources to women, and women generally provide childcare, sex and domestic skills in return. Maybe it's pragmatic but being single all my life might not feel right
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>>18256738
Break this awful mold that men are meant to fill. Both passing on genes and companionship are overrated. Your talking to an expert here. The first time a women shits all over your feelings and leaves you in the dirt is when you'll realize that what I'm saying is true. I've been there dude, don't make the same mistakes I did.
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>>18256707
Date because it gives you vital experience when you're ready to start a family.

Don't close that door. When you're 30 the paternal instincts might be unbearable, or the woman you're with might be desperate for a babby and you love her so much you're willing to oblige.

Pretty much all the women you date between 20 and 30 don't matter at all. It's good to keep them as friends/connections if you can, that's part of being mature, but if the relationship goes down in flames then it doesn't matter at all. If you get your heart broken you'll be tougher. If you look back and cringe you'll know you're moving in the right direction.

Every fuck up is vital experience to help you find that one good woman to spend your life with.

Finding a good woman amongst all the unfaithful, brainwashed thots is ridiculously hard, some men have a much better time finding a woman from another culture simply because the West programs women to never be satisfied and to be completely unfaithful if things aren't perfect (but don't race mix, or your kids will forever be ostracised and they might get congenital conditions like fucked up organs and skeleton size) so it's going to be a herculean task finding that cutey, but I'd say 80% of men love their children more than anything, and having a kid means finding a good woman to be a good mother, or they'll turn out to be a little shit.

This process is hard and grueling and incredibly painful at times, and will make you question your very soul and character, but always remember

Bitches ain't shit. But finding a good woman and making little babbies to continue your lineage is one of the most meaningful things you can do once you're past that period of slaying dragons in your 20s, so you gotta put in the hours and make your cringey, heartbreaking mistakes so you don't tie yourself to an ungrateful, unfaithful, boring, twisted ho later, or they WILL ruin your life (look at divorce rates, the western family is fucked).
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>>18256769
Aww look at the babby telling other men to be slaves to women. Do you need your bottle babby?
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Here's a good tip to keep your women happy and to always come out on top:

>Treat your girl like your daughter.

Not in a creepy way, or a controlling demeaning way, but in a tender but firm way. Don't put up with them treating you like a little bitch, or using you, or tricking you, or lying to you. They'll behave much better if you're firm and draw a line in the sand, and they think it's manly as fuck that you won't take their shit.

Be tender, but don't neglect yourself. You're not one of these cucks that devotes himself to a woman and spends 24/7 with her. Follow your own interests and passions, ESPECIALLY at the cost of her. If she can't spend a day with you because you're busy working on a car or learning violin for half a day, then BE STRONG, put your foot down and stick to that. They love that, and the skill that you're working on is part of the reason they were attracted to you.

Don't take their shit, but keep in mind, they often aren't as mature as you. This might sound misogynistic and untrue, but it's very liberating once you realise it. You treat a woman with a certain amount of understanding, that they are prideful and emotionally driven where you are driven by logic and passion. Often women make stupid demands or act immature, and if you cave in and acquiesce, they will lose respect for you, because they are clever enough to know that they are acting up or looking for attention. Be firm, but don't be angry - you wouldn't be angry at your daughter, but you wouldn't go along with every stupid or spoilt thing she requested.

In the end it is about respect. There is a degree of dominance involved, but the most important and underlying thing is respect. If you don't receive complete respect from your woman, she will start acting up and you will feel it - this is the emasculation that a cuck finds sexual pleasure in, but a good man and husband should seek to avoid like the plague.

Keep your woman's respect for you by being somewhat of a paternal figure.
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>>18256772
>>18256745
>>18256723

This thinking is dead end.

Hard times breed harder men. The West is facing a very hard time for good men and women, despite its abundance of wealth, stimuli and comfort.

When it comes to women, they have been subject to brainwashing and propaganda for so long, there are many who are completely unsalvageable, but you will find that the majority of women cannot suppress their feminine instincts. They may have been trained to be a whore, but when lead by a strong man, will find their true happiness comes from being a good woman.

It just requires a strong man to overcome their programming. Or search for the elusive remaining 'pure' women, but it will be a tough search.

MGTOW is the reactionary equivalent of the feminist icon, the working single woman who goes home to her house of cats.

Having a child is one of the best things you can do with your life. You will regret not entertaining the idea of having offspring who will look up to you unquestionably for their child life if you are a good man, and will continue your lineage and look after you in old age. Kids can be your best friend and your protege, and they can achieve things with your knowledge and support that you could only dream of.

They need a good mother to raise them too. You need to be strong to find a good mother and keep her in line. MGTOW pussies have no hope of this, so they opt out.

Good, clears the gene pool of weak men. The West faces a dark future of hard times, and out of those hard times, the strongest men will rise, and they will have the best women.
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>>18256707
>Part of me thinks i have a general dislike for women

That's the dislike a father feels for his kids when they're being annoying or spoilt. This is because girls are raised poorly nowadays, to act up like brattish kids.
I feel your pain Op

Just learn what a good woman is, and look for that. Learn from books of antiquity, by researching the feminine figure from classics, a lot of pagan myths deconstruct what it means to be a woman - the hag, the maiden and the crone, for instance.

If you understand women, you'll love them. If you don't get them, you'll be confused, they'll treat you like a shmuck, and you'll be a bitter virgin or give up on them.

Women are kinda fucked up and prey to propaganda, even if they seem very similar to guys, they cannot escape their nature and will at some point be prey to it, and this can fuck up your relationship.

So you'd better get learning quick about the nature of women and the roles of feminine and masculine people. Don't fall for modern post-modern and feminist propaganda - the best sources are the 20,000 years of human existence before feminists came along and made women think that being a CEO or a slut is better than being a mother or a good wife.

Keep learning bro. Make your mistakes, they're the only way to learn. Treat it like a quest - you're at a low level right now, but if you're smart and apply yourself, you'll be at endgame levels soon enough

Something MGTOWs will never understand lmao.
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>>18256769
>>18256784
>>18256804
>>18256829

this feels like your wise old grandad is giving you advice while

>>18256723
>>18256745
>>18256772

feels like some dyed haired feminist is telling you to stop shaving your armpits
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>>18256804
> when lead by strong men
> overcome their programming
> having a child is one of the best things you can do with your life
How retarded are you dude.
Stop spreading this awful shit dude.
People like you make me sick.
Your further destroying the already shitty world with the degeneracy.
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>>18256723
>sour grapes
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>>18256876
Being a strong man, finding and keeping a good woman, and having and raising a good strong child is further destroying the world with degeneracy?

I think you need to have a little think by yourself. You've been sold something a little self contradicting. Many such cases. Sad.
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>>18256901
You sound like a fucking two year old dude. You must be like 18 because you have no concept of how the world works.
You have some soul-searching to do I recommend starting it now.
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>>18256707
I don't care about your situation op

Is the comma in OP's picture necessary?
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>>18256745
Yes good goyim, don't reproduce. Western Women are all whores, goy. Just let Jamal, Xi, and Mohammed take care of them. Keep watching porn and live for yourself. Be sure to spend all that extra cash you'll have while you remain single!
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>>18256920

What is your game plan?

Sit at home playing videogames til you're senile and can no longer walk to town, past all the happy families and fathers with their sons? Wait til you're old and alone with no one to visit or look after you? Donate all your saved up pennies that you 'totally didn't waste on kids'?

Bachelor life is sweet. Doing whatever you want when you're 20 is fuckin cool. But most people grow past this, and realise they want to undertake the challenge and reward of passing on your genetic material.

It's okay bro, having offspring and purpose in your life isn't for everyone. Not everyone can attract and keep a good woman, it's much easier to sit at home jacking off and fantasising about a woman who loves you, or pay a prostitute to pretend to like you when they look at you as a lonely sugar daddy at best.

Women don't have to be leeches. You can live poor with a woman and have an incredibly rich life. Or you can date a gold digging ho and lose all your shit in a divorce.

It's all dependant on how strong and wise of a man you are. Not everyone is cut out for it.
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>>18256945
Nice one dude. I agree with you. Keep doing what you are doing and maybe we will beat them to some wisdom together.

Listen to this anon.
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