There's this girl I've known for almost a year now.
We both like each other, but haven't gotten into a relationship yet.
The main thing is that she's not actually attracted to me, not physically at least. She's probably asexual.She wishes she was attracted to me, but she's not.
What do I do?
>>18255406
Decide if having a relationship with her is more important than having a sexual relationship. Unless she decides to work on being more sexual with you as a compromise
>>18255406
>She's probably asexual
translation: she is too much of a pussy to tell you directly that you have absolutely no hope of fucking her
>>18255420
I don't really care about sex or anything, at least not now.
The thing is that she doesn't even have butterflies, or any slight feeling of infatuation.
>>18255529
Then in what way does she like you? Butterflies are romantic love, not lust.
as someone on the opposite end of this relationship:
You'll probably have great chemistry for as long as you're together but she'll never feel attached to you and if someone she is attracted to comes up she will leave you.
So you better make damn sure she's asexual or you can live with that.
>>18256447
this.
also, if you arent CERTAIN of your own sexual indifference, don't bother with a relationship with someone like her.
it may not seem obvious from right now, but just physically desiring contact with another human is of a visceral importance to most people even if they havent realised it thru experience yet. It defines alot of self-worth components in a relationship.