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Escaping the friendzone, but not really 2017-04-24 11:02:39 Post No. 18255281
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Escaping the friendzone, but not really 2017-04-24 11:02:39 Post No. 18255281
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>Be friend for 6 months with a girl
>She puts up with all my socialy awkward bullshit. she listens to my problems and I listen hers. She is very kind to me and says that she wants us to "always be together"
>Start developing strong feelings for her of course
>Lately she broke up with her bf and it didn't go well to say the least.
>She was devastated. To forget, she partied a lot, did a lot of alcohol, some drugs too.
>A month later, she is starting to get better, and two of her "party friends" are courting her big time.
I want to try my chance and ask her out before one of these guys seals the deal. Eventho she doesn't want to admit it to me I know she allready had sex with one of them while she was wasted. She says he's an asshole and she doesn't want to talk to him anymore but come on, I'm not that dumb. She also say that she doesn't want to get into a relationship right away but I see these cunts getting bolder and bolder each passing day and she ain't stoping them.
Now for the tricky part : I know I have absolutely zero chance she says yes. We are way too different from eachother for her to be interested in me. But eventho I know that, the mere perspective that I might have the single tiny spec of the quarter of a shot at it just haunts me to the point I can't get any sleep. I need to get it off my chest so I can move on with my life.
So the question is : how do I ask her out in this situation if I want to stay her friend if - and I really should say "when" here - she rejects me ?
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>>18255281
You just do it. If she says no, you move on. That's it. Don't okay yourself, brother.
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>>18255333
I plan on that doing that, I'm asking how do I do it. I don't want to weird her off, I want to us stay friends after that.
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>>18255365
Most girls can tell when someone likes them. Some like to play as if they don't, but most are at least aware. It probably won't seem that strange. Be careful, though. Sometimes, in an attempt to let people down gently, they say stuff like "not right now" or "I am still getting over X". Basically, if the answer is anything but hell yes, it's a no. Don't wait around or you will hurt yourself.
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>>18255429
Well, I'll try. I'm allready hurting anyway. We're going to see Life at the local theatre in two days, I'll do it then, after the movie before walking her to her place.
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>>18255463
Good luck anon. Always remember that there are always more fish in the sea. If things go south, distance and focus on bettering yourself. You'll meet someone else eventually.
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>>18255281
You'll be fine. This is exactly what you should do. Ask her and be ok with getting rejected.
It kinda sounds like she wants (or wanted) to want you, but doesn't. So she knows what you've got, at least.
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