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I'm basically a friend escort. It's not the same as leeching or golddigging. My friend would *not* have a close friend if it weren't for me. He has inherited some powerful narcissistic traits and social deficits. The father (the non-narcissitic parent) voluntarily, insistently pays me to be friends with his son. I am desperately poor and have not completed my certificate program yet.

If the friend isn't talking about woman hate or UFOs, I intently listen to him and empathize. If I slip and argue with him or satirize something he likes, I don't retaliate when he spits serious hatred and put-downs. I simply end the interaction a few minutes later, as a sort of time-out for adults.

As I gain more independence, I ask less from the father, and spend less time around the poisonous friend.

Here's the issue though. Imagine that *someone else hired the escort for you* and *this arrangement was never openly discussed.* See the problem now, the source of tension? It's like if your father hired an escort and told the two of you to never acknowledge the arrangement. This works with sex (a highly competitive market where even good people miss out) than with friendship (a fairly easy to succeed in market where anyone who isn't scared to participate should succeed).

TL;DR: it hurts when your dad has to hire a friend.

I hate this situation for everyone involved. I believe it developed by accident. I would barely be surviving if I didn't do this. People in my life situation (homeless at 18 with no good body or job skills), usually do drugs until they die. I have a chance a life thanks to this arrangement. I can go to school and have shelter.

The only thing is, I despise this arrangement. Everyone involved does. I'm slowly becoming more independent and asking less from the dad. Any other ideas?
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>>18255274

That depends. Do you want to help your 'friend' out? Are you in just for the money?

If you do care for him, you might try to open yourself to his father and tell him you want out with the deal. You can then try to snap your friend out of bad ideas he might have, although 'woman hate' is often derived from affection deprivation and helping him get laid would probably vanquish these thoughts from his head without you needing to say a word.

If you don't give a shit, just leech off the money until you don't desperately need it anymore. What else can you do, really? You said it yourself you wouldn't survive, or would survive hashly, weren't it for the money you get from the deal. You don't really have an option here just yet.
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Please give me this dads contact information if you plan on stopping what's going on. I desperately need money, and quite frankly, hanging out with assholes is something I already do, so I might as well be getting paid for it.

For actual real though, I want to get payed for communicating and like, spending my energy on people. Teach me how to find rich dads with fucked up kids.
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>>18255315
If someone needs a friend escort, they would need a sex escort as well. The father could start making a difference, but that would be very risky and difficult, so he is complacent.

It's not leeching to be providing a service. It sounds like you understand philosophy a bit, at least the practical stuff. If you met this guy, you'd see that I'm providing him a service. In a friendship, the only definitive value he provide anymore is money and of course the sounding-board quality we all have. It hurts me to say that, because I do care about him, but it's the truth.

>not much else you can do
If I attempt to price things his father gave me, I'm asking for about 25% of what I was. The percentage should continue to go down until it hits zero.

The son is smart. He knows deep down what is going on. We all like to (need to) pretend otherwise, to keep the wheels turning. Nobody else is a truly close friend to him. He is heavily depressed with somatic symptoms painful enough for him to vomit.

>not much else you can do
but I hate this. its prostitution. it's a disgrace to all of us.
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>>18255324
Well this is lightening my mood. Do you think something like this should be a real operation, like an escort service?

I'm hoping you won't be desperate by the time I graduate. What's your situation?
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Wtf retard. Youve already gone down the shitbag route and feel bad for it. Why not make daddy pay full pop? Bitch that > son has been particularly insufferable lately and you need more incentive to stick around. Milk these tards for as much as you can. Think about it, you feel bad already so why not profit as much as you can so you can move on sooner and stop feeling like shitbag. Js dude, you're drawing the line in a pretty stupid place and causing yourself more trouble than you need to. Pisses me off you arent using this opportunity to its fullest
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>>18255362
I'm pulling out. I wouldn't just stay in this awkward limbo. The goal is to ween off.

And not everyone in a bad situation is a retard. I was ready to attend school for a degree that would have definitely resulted in a job. It's not my fault that my mom shit the bed and wastes her entire life and money on dickhead guys.
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>>18255369
1 not saying your a retard, the dad is a tard
2 dont blame your shitty life on your mom, regardless of her shitty choices. Youre your own man now, it not her responsibility to take care of you just because she shit you out and theres tons of things you can do on your own to get ahead finacoally, like milking this retard and his son.
3 you can pull put and ghost them any time you please, you dont gotta ween jack shit. Take the money, as much as you can, and feel bad, because you have paid the emotional toll anyways.
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>>18255388
It was in everyone's best interest to house me while I went to college. Giving the kid zero preparation and booting him at 18 is white trash as evidenced by how she wasted the four years giving money and succ to a mechanic who stayed in the basement talking to nobody.

As for the advice to go up to the dad and say "give me more money" in an *unspoken agreement...lets just say im not a fan of your musings.

Sorry brother
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>>18255411
You disappoint me, son. I was right to abandon you.
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>>18255274
Your job is something "normal" if you ask me. You're basically giving a service for the need of a kind of human interaction. There's tons of that out there. Your "friend" would suffer mentally if he was all alone and his father wants to prevent that. So he hired you as a kind of caretaker. By doing what you do you help the guy and his father. You were the last resort for that.

As a part time job I work at a hospital as a private attendant. I'm basically hired to sit besides a patients bed and fullfill small wishes, like giving water or helping them eat. If they want to talk I'll talk with them. Most of my job I stare into my laptop. It's not much, but for some patients and relatives it makes a huuuge difference to know someone is near them. Some guy was constantly losing his shit until I got there and just quietly sat beside him. He absolutely calmed down. I understand that putting on the act is the hardest part for you, but see it as a service for the father.

You and I do similar shit to get to cash. The biggest difference is that I work for a company.

If you want to make it more bearable with your friend maybe do some activities together that make the interaction more enjoyable. Like playing sports, fishing, taking walks to nice places, going to a cinema.
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>>18255431
the fact your thought thatd work is telling. If want to insult me call me white trash or something. At least try to think a bit

>>18255464
Thanks bro. I think the two are bitter that they gotta pay ppl to hang out w him though, understandably. Paying a stranger to be at your bedside as part of the hospital bill doesn't reflect badly on a person.

Idk man I just don't feel right. This poverty lifestyle fucks with your head. I don't want to take cash from ppl. I wante to go to college and be a happy normal.

>do some activities for it to be more bearable
Yeah we do. He was showing me some good anime and I thought we were getting along well. I satirize one episode for its plot and he told me to die. Wtf.
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