Jealous of my internet friends partner

>>18254937
See that's fucked up to flirt and shit when your hanging out. So many people just throw away friends to fuck someone or date them. Honestly I wouldn't talk with them or hangout anymore. I recently cut a friendship off because I was getting shitty short responses and barely talked to. I always felt like I was annoying and in the way trying to talk or hangout and I thought why the fuck do I want a friendship like this. Feeling like this when I wanna talk to my friend.

>>18255045
And the worst thing is it'll be worse if you do cut contact because you'll be waiting by the phone for a text from them asking what's wrong or why you haven't said nothing in a while and you get nothing. All of their free time is focused on them now and not you. Chances are none of them give a fuck about you not talking to them anymore because they have each other.

I know I sound harsh but I'm only doing this because it happened to me and I took way too long to understand what happened and why and i want you to accept it and move on quicker than I was able to

>>18255045
>>18255056
You sound like a terrible friend anyway. This sort of thing happens, and you'd do it if you had a partner too. Get over it, people are allowed to hang out with their partner.

>>18255060
OP here, I know that. I just feel intense jealousy bubbling.

>>18255062
The jealousy is up to you to manage, and it's not fair on your friend if you just cut them off because of it. Ultimately you need to look after yourself and if you're getting jealous then there's really no choice, but you're not a good friend for doing so.

>>18255066
So should I talk to them about it?

>>18255075
How's that going to help? I just told you it's up to you to manage your jealousy.

>>18255060
so your telling me its justified to just abandon everyone you know, not talk with them or ditch them just to hangout with some random guy you met? You sound like a dumbass. People can do a balance of both no problem but to just ditch them and go dark is horrible

>>18255220
>so your telling me its justified to just abandon everyone you know, not talk with them or ditch them just to hangout with some random guy you met

I think you need to reread the thread because you seem lost.

>>18255229
no im responding to him saying im a terrible friend

>>18255220
>>18255236
If that's all it takes for you to cut contact and completely erase your friendship, then yes, you are a terrible friend. At the very least, you had a very shallow friendship and it's understandable why your friend wouldn't prioritise you.