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I've been in the best relationship imaginable with my girlfriend of a year and a half now. She has her hiccups, insecurities, misunderstandings here and there. In general, everything is perfect.
But she found a picture of my long gone ex on my phone that I didn't even mean to have in there. It was in my deleted photos folder alongside conveniently placed porn photos. She interrogated me about it, I checked, and I felt like I was framed. I felt like someone fucking put the photo there, but I'd just been careless, I guess. So basically, she's now convinced I want my ex sexually, and I'm lying about it.
It's gone tits up now. She's sleeping in another room, she refuses to speak to me. She's calling me a liar, and that she can't believe me or forgive me. All because it looked like I jacked off to my ex.
This is affecting me, but I strongly believe giving up is the worst thing you can do. Cuz it ends there. And had I given up at our last fight, we'd have never forged the priceless memories we had these past couple of months. And if I leave, I'll always be the person that gave up on her in one of her worst moments.
I want to support her, and help her, but everything I do gets rejected. It's gotten to the point where my presence is an issue.
halp. this hurts quite a bit.
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I believe you gotta give it some space and time. Theres really nothing you can do if you're being dismissed constantly. Wait for 'er to come to you. I feel you though, I'm going through something too.
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Trust takes time.
Basically you need to make sure you show her it was just that one pic. It'll be more easy to convince that you had that by accident (if you actually wanted to jerk off you would've had more)
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>>18252151
Thank you for your reply. I put everything into our relationship and I can't stand to see her hurt and see this go bitter. It just doesn't help that no one believes me.
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>>18252160
This is the second time something along these lines has happened though, which is why she's having none of it. That time was also a mistake. But I can understans how I look like a slimy liar who just wants my ex and can't admit it. There's just -nothing- I can do about this rn
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>>18252184
We have to try to see if we can get that trust that we lost back. Bitter and hurt is the perfect way to put it.
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>>18252142
Your gf is super insecure + jealous combo.
Just make it up to her. Ask her on dates like when you started dating, buy her HUGE pack of flowers, dont pressure her and tell her you are sorry for having pic of your ex on your phone. With a bit of luck and time she will realize it was just a fucking picture.
Dont try to talk yourself out of it. Say you are sorry. Nothing more nothing else.
And consider dropping your porn folder. Some girls (probably yours too) cant stand their bf masturbating to anything but them. Hell some even thinks we dont fap at all, that they are more than enough to satisfy us.
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>>18252254
Really good advice. I appreciate this.
I've done a lot today to make it up to her but as I said, it all just pissed her off even more. I hope in time she realizes it was just a bloody picture, but I have been trying to talk myself out of it. So thanks. Also yes I just dropped the porn folder. Funny how you knew that was a thing.
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>>18252254
this whole post reminds me of a chick I knew whose bf had pregnant porn and refused to stop fapping to it. She was pretty devastated about it.
Probably has something to do with her being a hamplanet tho.
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OP here. She said she's giving me a second chance but she feel like she can't trust me, won't forgive me, and doesn't feel like things will go back to the way they were (which were blissful) - even though she wants to. Thoughts?
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