Hey /adv/, I just had a great and somber date today. There's this girl in college that I met in an organization and I had picked up feelings of interest from her. She would normally be on her phone during long meetings but, whenever I spoke, she dropped everything to hear me.
She laughed at all of my jokes and last Thursday, I asked her to drink coffee with me. Saying yes, we exchanged numbers and met today. Near the beginning, she mentioned to Me that she has a boyfriend.
However, we spoke for 1 and 1/2 hours and we hit it off so well: laughed at my jokes, told personal stories to each other, and had great chemistry together. At the end, I told her it was a shame she has a boyfriend and that, if that changes, to hit me up.
I don't understand; I made it clear that I was interested in her from the get go and she was showing obvious signs of interest too. We ended on such a great note and there was definite chemistry between us.
It seems that the only reason we're not together is just because she's already dating, I feel so conflicted. She's a freshman and I'm a junior, and I feel like she won't be dating him forever, what should I do?
Advice? The most painful part isn't that she's taken, but that we share interest in each other; it hurts knowing that I'd she were single, we would be together.
do you really want to date a hoe that goes on dates whilst in a relationship?
>>18251401
I like to think at first she agreed to get coffee to be kind, but when I asked her out, she not only said yes, but even invited me to an art gallery downtown where she works and told me when she worked. I didn't go because I had a lot of work, but still, I guess you have a point.
She's such a sweet girl though, I don't think she would cheat; if she did, we would've had a second date planned
We have a connection, but she won't drop her bf because of that
>>18251429
she might just be naive and dumb. is that what you want in the mother of your kids? one that invites a guy that wants to hit on her to an art gallery because she can't pick up hints in plain sight?
>>18251446
I don't think so, she knows and I know how we've looked at each other; all of the time I've known her, she has had her eyes on me, like mine have been on her.
We have something, yet she's taken; I don't want this to go away, there's a connection I haven't felt with anyone else, and I feel she feels the same
>>18251460
if her exes wander whilst in a relationship, she's a slut. if she is with the wrong guy, she will have to realize and break up. let time do it's thing.
>>18251381
Got a lot to learn OP. Most women in relationships will date other guys and fuck them but do not continue with this one because you already have feelings for her.
>>18251471
I guess your right, I have to see what time will bring
>>18251484
But she didn't try to bang though; her affection was there, but she didn't try anything like that