How to retain dignity when it appears crush doesn't like you back?
>attracted to girl, can't stop thinking about her
>work with her so can't exactly avoid her
>she sends out confusing mixed signals but on balance it seems she's not interested (she has a bf who she gratuitously brings up alarmingly often out of nowhere)
>I've been trying to portray myself as cool and laidback and haven't made any kind of "move"
>still ridiculously attracted to her but I don't want to screw myself and look like a fucking loser
What do?
thanks in /adv/ance
nothing
>>18250440
>she has a bf
well fucking duh she's not interested
She has a boyfriend. She's not interested in you. Accept the fact that this isn't happening. Smoke pot and jack off thinking about her.
>>18250446
I'm not talking about going on a date with her this instant... but boyfriends don't last forever.
>>18250448
>Accept the fact that this isn't happening.
That's what I'm trying to do but I need to do so while I still have to work with her and can't exactly help I find her attractive.
All you can do is move on.
Only a beta dwells on rejection.
>>18250460
Don't do this it will make things worse
Oops I meant don't do the jacking off and imagining her part not your response
What you can do is accept that you are friends and enjoy it even message her when you miss her but pretend it's just a friendship if she has feelings for you sex will come
Having a boyfriend is just a boyfriend nothing lasts and who knows maybe she is meant to be with you
>>18250440
>she has a bf
Move along.