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Can I reverse the damage porn has done to me?

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Can I reverse the damage porn has done to me?
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>>18250219
maybe, what kind of damage are we talking about
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>>18250222
I used to be able to get hard simply by looking at attractive women

Now I masturbate to really degenerate shit (no scat or piss yet though) and cant even get hard looking at naked chicks IRL
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>>18250223

That's performance anxiety, not "damage porn has done."
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>>18250238
But why dont naked girls turn me on like they used to
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>>18250265
Naked woman are inherently sexualized to us as young men because we are socialized to attach a certain gravitas to the shame of nudity, and so the naked female form is inherently arousing to young men due to its novelty. But as we age, it becomes more and more normalized to see fully developed women and naked ones in non-sexual situations (art, primitive cultures, etc.), and we realize that the female body is not inherently sexual in and of itself and we begin to require a more complex context to be aroused. If you aren't aroused by, say, making out with a girl who you realize you're going to score with later, then that indicates a problem. But having sexually developed, not popping one just from seeing a hot woman is completely normal - especially with exposure to advertising, images of hot women are a dime a dozen
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>>18250298
>we realize that the female body is not inherently sexual in and of itself
You are so full of shit it's amazing.
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I had to deal with this myself and it's an easy fix.
You don't get a boner anymore because women are just tame compared to the shit we can see on /gif/ or whichever porn site you go to. Basically you've cranked up the volume to 11 and you can't hear the normal 5-7 range. To get your "hearing back" to continue the metaphor, you need to have your ears get used to the silence again.

Tldr: STOP watching porn. Go off that shit for 3 weeks. Also, no fapping. After three weeks a stiff breeze should make you cream yourself.
If and when you eventually get back to porn, start with /s/ and fap once per day only. Limit your exposure to the hard shit, Or you'll have trouble with your dick again.

When doing the deed, take your time. Make out, grope, turn her on. The foreplay will work on you too. It's hot hearing her enjoy what you do to her.

Hth
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>>18250299
Nice counterpoint.
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