getting back together with an ex

>said that i'd wait for her

Why the fuck would you do this? This turns it from a breakup into a "break", where your girl ends up fucking every bad boy she wants because she has a free pass. You're fucking retarded.

And if you can't handle her uni stress/mental issues what makes you think you can handle them now? You clearly didn't love her enough for those minor obstacles in the first place. Just move on, and grow up.

>>18248963
>Why the fuck would you do this? This turns it from a breakup into a "break", where your girl ends up fucking every bad boy she wants because she has a free pass. You're fucking retarded
already mentioned that

>You clearly didn't love her enough for those minor obstacles in the first place. Just move on, and grow up.
i absolutely did not want to break up at all, it was her that felt like she had to, i tried and tried but she was really certain thats what she needed right now

>And if you can't handle her uni stress/mental issues
she'll be finished at uni soon and like i said its minor mental issues, its not me that cant handle them, its her that couldnt which is why she felt like she had to break up, and she wont have to worry about uni because it'll be over

>>18248970
So would you be okay with her fucking random guys off Tinder? Because that's what she did. There is no reason to leave a good relationship because of stress. Your partner should be HELPING you with that. They should be your support.

The fact that she broke up with you means 1.) the breakup wasn't about deep emotional shit (she wanted to fuck others) or 2.) You two couldn't emotionally provide for each other, and never will be able to unless you never encounter problems again.

>>18248984
>So would you be okay with her fucking random guys off Tinder? Because that's what she did.
>its the anon who knows more than the situation youre in than you
no, i wouldnt be, and i dont think id be able to get back with her if that happened
i havent stopped myself from fucking anyone solely because of her, ive lost all my libido since the break up and i wouldnt want to fuck anyone right now even if i wasnt "waiting for her"

>The fact that she broke up with you means 1.) the breakup wasn't about deep emotional shit (she wanted to fuck others) or 2.) You two couldn't emotionally provide for each other, and never will be able to unless you never encounter problems again.
this is fair and makes sense, i hope #1 isnt the case, and the relationship was great with communication until the end where the stress started building up, but maybe #2 is right

>>18249000
Yeah m8, if your relationship can't handle academic stress, it can't handle the much more intense stresses of life. Like money problems, issues with kids. It hurts now, but I think your relationship won't work in the long run. Let her know you're officially done so you can start moving on.

>>18249007
yeah i get you, that sucks but its probably true, its a shame because she was perfect, but she cant handle stress i guess thats a key factor of a relationship

Don't let breakups faze you OP.

If she reaches out in the future, give her the gift of a second chance with you. If not, you'll meet someone more compatible down the road as long as you focus on self-improvement and remaining a boyfriend material person.

Don't reach out. If she's thinking of reaching out soon, receiving a message from you could diffuse any attraction that has been building and she could change her mind in an instant. Don't interfere in the process. Girls are always the curator of second chances.

>>18249000

>lost all libido

Wooooah there OP. That's really bad. You should always be in prime fucking condition.

Keep ejaculations to once every 4-5 days MAX, avoid porn, and edge daily. Keep your dick strung and your thrusts potent. You don't want to run into your ex, end up in bed that night, and not be able to please her. Your chances could be ruined right there.

>>18249310
>Don't interfere in the process.
exactly my thoughts, i dont want her to get back with me because ive messaged her again, i want it to be 100% her decision to reach out to me again, when shes ready (i mean, its possible she never will and i realise that)

all of that makes a lot of sense to me though, thanks my friend

>>18249351
hello /fit/
this happened to me in my last relationship as well, and i expect it to last a little longer, it seems as if thats how my body reacts to break ups, give me a month more and ill be fine

but its fine because i have a big dig

>>18249378
Try using the law of attraction.

Positive thoughts about your ex only. Picture her texting you "I miss you." Maybe even text it to yourself.

Open your texts as if the text is already there.

The law of attraction works and seeing it acknowledge you back is crazy.

>>18249430
all of my thoughts towards her are positive, in fact i hardly have any negative thoughts towards her

it was a great relationship and i do miss her, not like i used to but i obviously do enough to make a thread like this i guess

>>18249430
Can you make me a custom tinfoil hat?