I'm still pretty new to sex. I've noticed that girls like the guy to take control. Problem is, I don't have that many ideas on what to do. I usually suggest a BJ, then missionary, then doggy, maybe her riding for a bit. Every time is the same.
What's the next step from here? Is there any more advanced things we could be trying?
I also think I'm too gentle, but I don't really know how to fuck rough without running out of energy quick. Maybe it's in the technique? But that's probably a topic for another time haha
>>18246015
The only step left is getting into anonymous group sex and swingers parties.
>>18246015
Use toys, 69 it, wall sex, floor sex, table sex, sex in a car, sex outside, whatever new place comes in mind. Tie her up, let her tie you up. Fuck discreetly somewhere in public, fuck indiscreetly in public. There're tons of options. Ask her about her fantasies and share yours.
Scat?
>>18246015
Youre just thinking too hard. Have a few shots of whiskey or puff on some reefer next time and go with the flow. Its way better when you dont try hard and think "I must switch positions after X seconds, keep my hand here, Make sure I look good over here..." etc.
>>18246015
>>18246015
Change up the order? Eat her out? Try different kinds of foreplay, try changing to other positions. Sex is not a formula or recipe to be followed, it's two people having a good time.
>>18246203
This is the best advice, ignore the people saying new positions or orders; its all in your mindset.
And seeing how youre a cringy goofball who just lost his virginity and is posting gay comics about being in love, you have a lot of work to do.
Just bring out your inner savage, push the bitches head against the wall and rip off her panties, dont be afraid to be too firm and just go where your dick takes you.
>>18246015
Let her take a shit on your chest
>>18246015
First of all, are you in a relationship or its casual sex? Sex is not a porn movie, you do what you feel confortable, enjoy doing, and you both do what you want to do.
The diferent things you can try with a girl you know more time, and you talk about what you wanna try.
Running out of energy is something you can get controlling your speed and breath, and its something you get it with experience.
>>18246034
Lots of nice ideas, thanks
>>18246203
>>18246211
I try to just see how it goes, but since I don't have a huge repertoire, I feel like there isn't much room for creativity.
>>18246225
>Just bring out your inner savage, push the bitches head against the wall and rip off her panties, dont be afraid to be too firm and just go where your dick takes you.
Ok, this is the stuff I need to work on. It just doesn't come naturally to me. Any other suggestions? I know hair-pulling and choking is a thing
>>18246267
The problem is I don't know what I wanna try. I'm pretty happy with vanilla, but I want my girl to enjoy herself as much as possible. And I've noticed that girls don't really like to be asked, or don't really know themselves, so it's hard to figure out.
Speed and breath. Interesting, hadn't thought of that. Thanks
>>18246510
Dude do you think every other guy has a guide book or a class? Just do what feels natural, once again youre thinking way too hard. Do you hear me? Thinking way too hard. Say it with me: thinking way too hard.
Does your girl never orgasm during sex?
>>18246514
>Does your girl never orgasm during sex?
She does, or at least she says she does. But she also talks about how her boyfriend used to be rough, and I definitely am not rough.
>>18246015
Try mojo upgrade with her!
Protip: eat more pussy
Like fuck her, make her cum, the pull out and eat her out.
She will cum again
>>18246514
>Dude do you think every other guy has a guide book or a class?
Yes. Any intelligent anon will read a book in the subject he wants to learn more about. Are you slow or something? Have you ever been to the library?
Anyways, original Anon, there's one book on oral sex you can read called 'she comes first' for technique. Even if you don't like tuna diving it is still educational.
>>18246015
You need to be in shape to fuck rough for a long time.
Lift weights and do cardio.
I can't imagine fucking out of shape.
>>18246015
>I also think I'm too gentle, but I don't really know how to fuck rough without running out of energy quick.
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>>18246510
Don't think, just act.
You have millions of years of evolution ingrained into your DNA, you're very capable of letting go and resorting to carnal instincts.
Just let go, don't think, and be in the moment with her. Pay attention and be vigilant and you're golden.
>>18248246
>you're very capable of letting go
not Op but what if I'm not capable
>>18248126
Sex is cardio. Just do it more often.
>but muh gainz!
Eat her out ... pull her legs to the end of the bed... let her ass be at the very edge. Put her legs together and push her knees towards her chest... this will do the trick
>>18246510
It just doesn't come naturally to me. Any other suggestions? I know hair-pulling and choking is a thing.
Try not fapping for a week. Your dick will know what to do.
>lust vs love
>lust expects to get something in return for what they have given
>love coddles me while I hurt myself and the one who loves me
Ever think of asking her what she's into/if she wants to try anything new?