I need a change in lifestyle. I recently graduated and moved

>>18244887
Have you gone to the army?

>>18245026
I've thought of it, but I'm a hotshot in my field at the moment. I've got a great job lined up and I don't want to give up this opportunity. Should I fail in the next while I'll give it more consideration.

Where is everyone? I just want to start my adult life on the right path

>>18244887
You are young adult who doesnt even have to pay rent currently with a uni degree. You are currently live in the top 10% planet population.

Now ask yourself what do you want from life? Job? Gf? Kids? Friends? Shitposting? Sport? Book?

What do you desire op?

>>18245125
From your options I would want gf, kids, friends, book and a little bit of sport. Most importantly I want friends, gf, kids. I'm satisfied with my non-social achievements and I've very lonely. I see people walking in groups having a good time everywhere, or holding hands. I just want someone to do something with who I can get to know. New things, regular things, I don't care.

>>18245142
>kids
Meh, you are then looking for wife material gf.

Do you know how we milenians date these days? Chads and attention sluts go to parties to kill their liver, rest goes to online dating and various social events.

Get a nice job related to your degree, there will be coworkers you will turn into your friends through sheer power of willpower and by asking them what they are doing on weekends or after work and basically force yourself into their lives against their will.

And remember, dont overcommit into your first gf. Treat her nicely but dont let your life turn into worshipping her. Because if she will turn crazy, you must keep sane no matter what. And you dont want to marry her until you two will live together for at least few months to see if you are compatible.

Now go, take your fat ass outside and start doing something you like with your life. You are for first time independent (sort of) and can do whatever you want.

>>18244887
>I'm satisfied with my non-social achievements and I've very lonely.
Good, you've got the hardest stuff done. Now expand your interests and get friends in general. Most people meet girlfriends through mutual friends.

>>18245196
>go to parties to kill their liver, rest goes to online dating and various social events.
Even living on campus I never knew how to find when these were happening. I started looking in to volunteering today but I'm finding it very hard to find something that will let me socialise, and something that I might like. There are surprisingly few options.

With regards to my co-workers I'll be working among ageing men and don't have too much high hopes. Between my last semester and my graduation/transition to full time job at the moment. If there are any opportunities for me in work I'll certainly try to take them.

>first gf
I've had two gfs, though they were when I was working in an Asian country where my skin colour is highly valued. They both ended up being pretty shitty to me. I've never actually had a real gf in my home country, Canada. I had sex with a girl a few times here but that's it.

>take your fat ass outside and start doing something you like with your life
Unfortunately the things I like doing mostly involve sitting at home or are unsocial. Including art, snowboarding among other sports in a minor sense and just generally exploring the area around me I guess. Trying to find out how I specifically want to live my life but I more or less know where I want to be headed and what I want to do to get there. Meeting people, and furthermore creating some kind of relationship has always been an issue for me however.

>>18245255
I've explored multiple interests including art, scuba diving, first aid, meetup groups etc. and nothing's really worked for me in that respect. Maybe I'm just impatient.

>>18245299
All i see are excuses. Join some social media, look at local news both online and offline to see what is happening in your area.

Google what to do in free time and hit enter. Join facebook page of your town and follow events. Find information in our information era.

And try online dating and hook up with some girl. FORCE YOURSELF TO STEP OUT FROM YOUR COMFORT ZONE. Or keep doing whatvyouvare doing and enjoy lonelyness. Your choice.

>>18245328
Good advice about the social media pages I'll keep my eye out.

I'm trying Tinder but I've had no luck even with the matches I've gotten. Volunteering is out of my comfort zone and I'm looking for more. I'm drinking something at a Starbucks as I type this.

>>18245423
>starbucks
Jezus, we have hipster here.

Look around. Do you see any female around you? Now go, ask her is you can buy a coffe to such nice lady and try to chat her up. Easy.

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>>18245449
It was walking distance from my house. People hang out at coffee shops right? I live near a high school and everyone here is a family or from high school. I'm 23 so it feels pretty weird. I suppose I could have though. People really do that to make friends?

Thinking of volunteering for the fire department. Anyone have any experiences?