How do I not take it personally when someone doesn't text me back? Like, I know you saw that text! What do you do to not feel badly about it? All I can do is imagine all the reasons why not, but I keep circling back to "well, he just must not like you very much."
Put your phone down, go do other shit. Go live your life and don't overthink.
We all ate different that is what you have to accept, even in work matters some prefer phone calls some prefer meeting in person etc
And if we say it's not about the way he /she prefers to respond not everyone feels what you feel and that's also fine cause some people neee time to reflect on this and get to decide what they feel,other feels instantly and get excited and text back others want to clear their heads ....There is ALOT OF REASONS that doesn't have to be a reflection of you
It only can be when you two have been long time together and you know for sure that he/she enjoys texting and that he keeps coming with excuses to avoid youb
If this means anything is that ur are bit free than he is and probably over thinking it
He's usually good about texting back quickly. Might be overthinking it, but also might not given that I know he's fine with texting in general. I get anxious when I text crushes, so it tends to hurt when they don't text back.
Then honestly it's your insecurity, I understand that takes time but the truth is you need to stop worrying about nothing it takes 8 weeks to change get our thinking habbits to a minimum so keep yourself busy and I hate the word crush he is just s guy you like and if he doesn't appreciate you then it's just he is not in that state of mind you can't change people
And even if he is good at texting he can be having a bad day or is really busy with something
I sometimes don't text cause I want to focus on something
Sometimes I am drained
Sometimes I think I don't have a good reply
Sometimes I want to be alone there is nothing bad about the other person but I do need my own time
Sometimes I want to be with a friend it doesn't mean I don't love the other person but u also have others who I love
There are guys who might only want that one person and will just text you back quickly but doesn't mean everyone is like that and usually they are unhealthy mentally
Work on yourself and even if he isn't into you it has nothing to do with you
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Thanks anon, this helped!