I think I am going to lose my virginity this weekend and I'm

You will fail. She will make fun of you and you will feel embarassed, even worse, she will ditch you after you fail really badly. No help here, and even wroser the anxiety will kick in at the moment so you are doomed either way..

>>18243841
You're going to have to tell her.

Look, I know it's scary and you're afraid of rejection, but if she genuinely cares about you she won't care that you're a virgin. What would you rather have happen though, struggle and fail at sex trying to act like a big tough sex person and putting her off with your lack of skill, or struggle and fail while she guides and instructs you on what to do and how to do it.

Most women will be pretty vocal about what they want in bed if you care enough to ask questions, lots of them relish the chance to mold a virgin into their own personalized sex machines. She doesn't have any bad habits to break you of, get it?

>>18243848 here
Just do your best and don't be afraid.

>>18243859
Yea man just tell her. Your attitude about it willake it obvious anyway. And if all else fails. Eat dat pussy.

>>18243841
Like many Said, talk with her. Happened to me, she saw i was nervous as fuck and i told her (i was 22) everything went better than expected, it lasted 2 years.

>>18243959
>>18243859
>>18243916
I guess this is a bit where the rabbit hole starts but I have lots of problems telling intimate things to people and intimacy in general. Id rather be considered a mediocre lover than just bare down to her, at least this early on. On top of the fact to the outside I always present the cold/detached face (mainly because of how much intimacy and attachment terrifies me)
Is there really no way or anything to just not fuck up too much?

>>18243996
Do you feel like trying to be someone you are not. This cold detached character you impersonate isnt you, and you will never be confortable/natural with this other person if you keep this up ...

>>18244021
Well I wouldn't say it's entirely not me. I am reasonably detached, as it's the persona I present to the outside world. I do crave intimacy sometimes, but I deal with it.
Either way if she feels attracted to me it's not to my insecure self so I think just baring down is out of the question. This is starting to seem like a huge mistake to me.

>>18244287

Don't tell her.
Watch heaps of amateur porn.
Stop deathgripping.

Come back and tell us how it goes.

Is the difference between virginity and inexperience really that obvious? Is it uncommon for people to have sex just two or three times?

Can you get away with being a kissless 24 year old your first time? I've suffered from social anxiety but I'm in recovery and starting to feel comfortable with girls. If I'm in the mindset of "I'd don't give a fuck" and just try to have fun, can I fake it?

>>18243996
Women like it when your vulnerable with them. Especially if you personality type is as described. It's a contrast they love.

>>18244366
When I lost it the girl could totally tell. They have a sixth sense for this stuff.

>>18244366
>a guy who's never put his dick in a woman before
vs
>a guy who's at least been inside a woman before

They can tell. They can so tell.