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My life partner, who I have a child with, has an issue. They call themself an Empath, and is constantly enough letting me know that I am thinking fucked up stuff about her, and that they can pick it up.
We rarely have sex, and were going to tonight, but they let me know, that, again, I am the horrible person for this and that.
I care so much about this person, and still want to support them. They can't get medication for a few months due to medical reasons, but nothing I do seems to help.
My word isn't good enough, and while I have almost infinite patience, tonight broke me, and I cried for the first time in front of them, in 3 years of togetherness.
What can I do? My word doesn't seem to matter, and sometimes things do get better, sometimes for weeks or months, and then it is back to it again.
No matter what, I supported them, but everything hangs on this issue. We have a house, paid for in full, by me. I am constantly showering them with affection, kisses, hugs, getting them coffee in the morning, telling them I love them, surprising them with flowers.. just coupley stuff like that.
What can I do to fix this? I don't want them to always be a ticking time bomb, and I'm sure with medication it can be fixed, but until that day I just want a relationship to be about joy.
Tl;dr .. Person of significance to me whom I have a child with thinks they can hear my thoughts, and that those thoughts are negative. Sex life non existant, and I cried for the first time being with them because I got told my words/promises, even on a dead parents grave meant nothing. Please help.
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Are you actually legally married?
Also what health reason is delaying medication?
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>>18243673
DID SOMEBODY SAY BAIT?
BAIT THREAD DETECTED
UNLEASHING MEMES
BAIT FAIL. QUALITY TOO LOW
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Yes, legally married.
Breastfeeding.
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>>18243670
>We rarely have sex
Once you get married, you officially sign your sex life away
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>>18243677
Stop breastfeeding and get her on some meds.
Get her some help or stop complaining.
If she doesn't want help then deal with your choice to marry her through the good and the bad.
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I try to get her help, or help her myself. She is adamant about breastfeeding, even while going through this, and causing me to go through it by proxy.
I do love her, and want to be with her, through thick and thin, but just today was hard. I learnt recently that I am able to immigrate into (Country) to be with her, so today should have been the highlight of our relationship, yet was instead my worst day.
I just want her back again. She didn't have this issue in the beginning.
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>>18243683
Not OP, but post aside, thats quite a goddam golden rod you have there. Doesnt beat my 1080p fish though.
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>>18243683
>>18243694
>>18243690
Damn, cant quite tell if this is bait anymore...either the quality really was excellent or this this genuine shit were fuckin with right here
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Think what you want, I just would like some help.
>>18243701
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>>18243690
it never goes back, and you cant force action upon her.
you need to change or you need to leave.
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>>18243718
I don't want to have to leave, we have a child. I've always been someone who put others before me, and I want to be able to fix this with/for her. It's a long wait till she can take anything, but I'm just trying to keep things working till then.
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>>18243723
you'd better dog you got married
ur a real bitch nigga if you go back on your holy vows.
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>>18243728
Thanks for a smile. Today has been a low point even when it should be the top. I still do want her/want to be with her, it's just that.. I have almost infinite patience/caring/etc..
And today wrecked me. I just want her happy is all, like.. fuck.
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>>18243735
I left my last gf because she refused to do the things that she expressed she needed to do to remain mentally healthy and eventually I was incapable of caring about her due to how she treated me.
Hopefully you married her because you felt she was the one to go through struggle with.
If you leave her the next person will have something else, no one is perfect.
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>>18243670
>the pronoun game
why dont you just say she?
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>>18243670
Don't stick your dick in crazy. And certainly don't cum in crazy.
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