Hey /adv/!
My problem is that my boyfriend doesn't come from having sex with me. Is this normal? I can make him come by doing bjs or hand jobs but just not from sex. He even said it doesn't feel good. I find this very weird since it's the first time I come across someone like him, we even tried different positions and lots of foreplay to see if he likes it best but it's just impossible, its seems it could go on forever but he just won't come or enjoy it the slightest. I really don't mind helping him climax in other ways, but I really like sex and I'm afraid he will just stop wanting to have it since he doesn't enjoy it as much.
Is there something I can do about it? We already discussed the issue but it seems to go nowhere, he is willing to have sex but it mostly feels like it's for me and he's not very good at faking to have fun which turns me off most of the time. I'm scared it's just me he's not really attracted to even though he assures me he really is. Any adv in how to deal with this stuff? is it normal?
>>18243355
>Boyfriend doesn't like sex is it normal?
What kind of retarded question is this?
>>18243355
T. Roastie
Virgins have a lot of trouble cumming from penetration. Maybe he was one?
And let's be honest here: I love fucking and cumming in a pussy as much as the next alpha impregnator male, but hand and mouth are more accurate stimulation wise
I say don't worry, tons of girls don't like penetration and put up a show for they bf's, he's just the opposite. If you're both ok with it, you both are good.
>>18243355
Your bf hasn't come out yet, OP
>>18243355
Could also be performance anxiety/low T
>>18243384
I have to disagree I do not like handjobs or blowjobs. I prefer full blown sex at all times if I can help it
a few questions:
do you use condoms?
how wet do you get down there?
are you an active participant during intercourse, or do you just lay there and take it?
>>18243355
He masturbates too hard/too often. Thats why he can cum from hand jobs but not vaginal intercourse. He needs to chill on porn, alcohol, and masturbating with a death grip. Also if he goes too hard and fast too soon he might be getting tired.
>>18243355
Does he genuinely seem unhappy when you get him off with your hands or your mouth? Honestly? Because I would just almost wager, unless he's repressing some sort of total psychological aversion to all sexual intimacy, the fact that he finds sex unenjoyable doesn't mean he doesn't like orgasms. And you get a never-ending erection to ride to your hearts content before you just finish him off however else. Everyone wins.
What exactly is the problem?
Easy
Find fetish
Do fetish, even if you have to learn Japanese
He will never cheat on you
>>18243355
Google coital anejaculation.
I had the same problem years ago and I discovered I was suffering from "dearth grip" and anxiety during sex. Mi solution was starting to take sex easier and stop caring about bullshit like lasting longer or not being good enough but that was after my GF left me.
Also ask him if he have any special request or fetish.
If that doesn't work send him to a psichologist.
your BF is blasting his seed in his socks every night.
That why he has ED
Porn kills love
PS: 100 days porn free, and i have my life back
>>18244014
I can barely go 2 days without feeling incredibly frustrated and wanting to fuck everything in sight.
God.
>>18244020
use that tension to go after real women. Its all in your head
>>18244022
All that will happen is I'll end up fucking a random. What's the point?