Is it normal for a 28 year old woman to be dating an 18 year old guy?

>>18238497
Depends, are you the girl or guy?

>>18238503
I'm female.

Most people will say it's wrong because of the age difference. I would say that both of you guys are really lucky. It shouldn't matter if it's normal or not. My parents are 10 years apart. Do what makes you happy :)

>>18238497
Its pathetic and would be the same if the genders reversed. Grow up

#1: age of consent
#2: giving of consent
#3: try to avoid regrets
#4: stop treating /adv/ like it's your fucking hugbox

Probably half of /adv/'s male population beats it to straight shota humiliation, so don't expect them to feel shocked when you say you're dating the jock they hated in high school. They're already numb to that, from high school of course.

It's not the median average.

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>>18238497
It's ok. Just enjoy it. I would care a bit more about how serious your relationship is.

Seriously, just enjoy it. At least you will not have to face cops if you try something with your dear one.

I hope I don't come off as mean but...

I have a friend, he's basically a man-child, a little too obsessed with videogames and anime. It's not like I don't game now and then and sometimes sit down and watch some anime too, but, I don't have my life revolve around that. When I go out with friends I talk about anything. life, what's happening around the world, about old friends, memories, etc.

My friend on the other hand speaks of how he beat a certain game, or how he wants to fuck some imaginary anime girl character. He gets aroused when he sees a videogame cartoon upskirt.

I know this sounds like it's unrelated but wait for it...

He told me once he wanted to become more social and suddenly he started hanging out with his cousins...

His cousins are from 15 to 17 years old. He's 33.

It may seem ok to get along with family but, it's not ok for a grown up to be alone with a bunch of kids. These kids offer nothing to him since they lack the experiences he had, he doesn't grow as a person at all, he can't do adult stuff with them because they are not quite there yet.

He had a pattern of finding 18 year old girls attractive, and at times mentioned he liked a certain girl under 18, but said it was a shame she wasn't legal. his comments made me realize he's immature, since dealing with an adult requires experience and a challenge, dealing with kids it's easy, you are the most amazing person ever because you have more experiences than them, you can tell them stories and even teach them shit.

So if a person seeks out a much younger person then, I'm sorry, you need to grow the fuck up and stop seeking an easy relationship because you're too afraid to be challenged.

Any adult dating a 18 year old needs to get out of that shell and hang out with people the same age and see how it helps you grow as a person.

>>18238510
I'd say it's not normal, but I'm also digging a boy who just turned 18 and I'm 24 so who am I to judge.

You're both adults. If you have a strong connection, I don't see why age should matter

>>18238783
I not obssesed with anime ir video games, I have a job and socialise but I am pretty much like your friend.
Problem is most adults are boring as fuck to hang out with. The routine of modern life literally kills the soul. I am thirty and men my age are just plain boring, women even worse, the experience they possess and could offer to me would probably make me kill myself. Talking to women my age is a pain, dating one is out of question. Needless to say not everyone is like that but large majority of grown up people are.

I also do enjoy hanging out with my cousins daughters (12 and 14).

>>18238497
Not 100%, but it's perfectly fine.

>>18238497
"normal" doesn't mean much
>is it common
look up stats
>is it wrong
are both of you adults ? yes ? then no

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You are having an interesting chat here. Allow me to ask something, girls.

I'm a healthy guy in my twenties, educated, perhaps a bit pretentious... But I don't like how people have fun nowadays. I mean, I don't like noisy parties full of alcohol. I prefer comfortable silences admiring the night sky more than meaningless conventional conversations.
This said, (for me) girls reach their optimal attractiveness right before puberty (11-12). I like older (and overage) women, but there's no comparison. Call me immature if you want, but their natural beauty (no make-up), lack of "experience" and sweet/soft behaviour greatly surpass a fertile woman with big breasts and butt with nothing else to offer (smart conversations are always welcome) than a depressive and peevish chatter.

What do girls of this age range like? Beauty, security, attention...?

>>18238894
>noisy parties and alcohol
>nowadays
Look, if that isn't fun for you that's alright. It isn't much fun for me either. Just don't do that whole BORN IN LE WRONG GENWRATION thing, when social gatherings like that have been a thing for literal milenia.

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>>18238894
Are you asking what 11 year old girls like? Boybands, cartoons, glitter, and ponies, I assume, unless things have changed very much in the past 15 years.

If you're asking how a grown man makes a connection with an 11 year old girl they have no prior relationship or attachment to, then I would say not without a whole lot of trouble and suspicious looks from everyone around.

>>18238910
>social gatherings
People keep going to social gatherings to drink because "that's what people do", and I sometimes do it too, but it doesn't mean that we like it.

>>18238952
I remember that once I met an 11yo girl at the bus stop. She was reading a book, and carrying her school bag. Cute and soft, not especially hot, just cute. She was really attractive to be honest. We had to stop our relaxing conversation because there was a woman (around 40) trying to hit on me.

>unless things have changed very much in the past 15 years
Girls nowadays do strip shows on Periscope.

>then I would say not without a whole lot of trouble and suspicious looks from everyone around.
Well that's something inevitable. Sure there are cool parents, but you this is the most usual problem.

>>18238952
Nice pic choice, btw. Miss Liddell is part of our living history.

>>18238824

We all have our points of view but, if hanging out with a bunch of kids is fun for you and hanging out with adults is "Boring" maybe you're missing out. Every time I meet someone new there's new perspective, new experiences. If I sit down with a kid nothing new happens, except this brat has limited experiences and a lot of questions.

Not all adults you meet will be interesting of course, some people have 12 year old brains when you talk to them, so I move on, meet new people.

I just never see myself hanging out with kids, they have a whole other world of immaturity that may give me a bit of nostalgia about when I was young and ignorant, but nothing else.

>>18238894
>What do girls of this age range like?
Boys of their age range, you creepy pedophile

>>18238497
He is 10 years older. In that time you finish two uni degrees and grow up from collecting pokemons and smoking weed to playing dota and becoming alcoholic.

You will be fine unless you talk him into marriage. Also you will want kids as soon as possible and he will still be kid himself at that time.

>>18238528
>straight shota humiliation
Found the >>>/d/egenerate

>>18238497
Sure, why not? From a siciotal view, older women dating younger men is A-ok. Its not normal, at worst its unusual but nothing remotelly damaging.

If you were a man it could be seen with scrutiny but since you are a woman, likely attractive at that, you are fine and he is seen as fortunate.

Enjoy it as others have said. It could prove to be a very fruitful relationship.

>>18238992
I just dont see it that way, but then I guess I am just immature. I have no problem with that.

>>18239001
The founders of your democracy were bisexual paedophiles. Do you hate them too?

I love you too, btw.

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