>Have never had a girlfriend before Does having one justify

Getting a gf/bf is not a happiness pill. Misery likes company and being outwardly miserable (with someone you don't have a history with already) is unattractive.

three words: sexual market value

Happiness doesn't necessarily come from sex, but GOOD sex whenever you want it is certainly a good start.

When your single girls dont want you.
When your single you want a partner.
When your in a long term relationship you miss being single.
When youre in a relationship girls you never thought were in your league want you.


Its a vicious circle.

Its good but as with anything it has its downs. Youd be lucky to find the perfect partner.

>>18237850
People always say this shit, but it's not always true.

Sometimes people THINK they're unhappy because they don't have a girlfriend/boyfriend, but they're really just depressed in general. Obviously for them getting a GF/BF won't be a happiness pill.

On the other hand, there are plenty of people who are unhappy because they're sexually frustrated and lonely, and for them it really can fix their depression.

I got my first girlfriend at the age of 22, and it lifted me out of the morass of
>tfw no gf
>i will die a kissless virgin
>i will never know what sex feels like
>forever alone
and although it wasn't a perfect relationship by any means and I was unhappy about as much as every other young adult, it was regular unhappiness, and not this constant fog of depression, self-hatred and self-doubt.

Some people need a family.
Others work to justify their worth.

Find out what you need to enjoy life and just go with it. A relationship can spring out of the most unlikely of places. Life is not meant to be structured. It is in a constant everchanging state of chaos. Just go with the flow.

>>18237848
it depends entirely on what makes you happy in life. There is not one single lone component to a relationship. Theres sex, theres validation, companionship, theres mutually beared struggles and mutually shared goals, theres a socio-societal component, theres preparing for parenthood...

if any of those sound appealing, then a relationship is something you should try. but like >>18237850 said, it don't fix everything