After reading a lot of tragedies on the various boards of 4chan I decided to try to stop being beta as fuck and I asked out a girl I've been friends with for a while.
She said yes, much to my surprise, and now I feel like a jackass who's bluff's been called because I don't know what to do now. We already hang out, see movies, and play games and shit. What do you do when you start dating someone you already spend a lot of time with? The same shit but without inviting other friends along? That sounds kinda lame. I'm not quite sure how to proceed here.
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>>18237185
>The same shit but without inviting other friends along?
Basically.
>That sounds kinda lame.
Well she's not going to suck your dick with all your friends sitting right there, is she?
Just take her some place nice that she'll enjoy. It's not tough.
>Whose bluff has been called
What bluff? Why are you acting as if this is a game of poker? You said you would do something, you did it, and now it's time to capitalize. Slowly establish a more intimate relationship i.e. be more physical, touchy. Smash that friend barrier with something more significant and relevant to your endeavor
>>18237228
The bluff is that I'm confident and know what I'm doing lol
Thank you for the advice though, it is appreciated
>>18237185
What did you ask her?
Asking someone out can also mean asking to be steady.
If thats the case then you spend time with her by yourselves.
Hold her hand and cuddle up when watching tv.
Ask her to the movies or out to eat.
Just dont change your personality.
She already knows you so you can skip trying to impress her.
If you are a kissless virgin then kiss her after the date when you are hanging out.
Dont wait until you are about to leave.
Just a fair warning because I have been here, you need to be sure she knows it's a date. She might see it as just hanging out, because that's what you guys do already.