Confidence boosting

>>18235492
Just accept the fact that it can go terribly and you might never be with her. If that happens there's a bunch of other girls.
Stop putting this specific girl on a higher level

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>>18235498
Ok that's not a problem for me. I learned it the hard way when i got rejected last year when a girl stopped answering to my messages. Was sad for a few weeks but got over it. I learned allot from that experience.

>>18235510
Ok then just go up to her and ask?
You've already faced the hardest rejection (first) why are you waiting with this one

Well... have you tried to be 'ok' with your wish to have her?
Normally when a guy has problems with going forward to a girl he wishes, he is having trouble accepting that wish.
This could be from many things, like low selfsteem per say, but it can also come from viewing the relationships (or even sex) as something bad.
When you look at her, do you feel ashamed? I mean, does your body respond like when you are ashamed?...
My tip is: repeat to yourself that it's ok to like her, to want to fuck her. That doesn't make you a bad person, that doesn't make her a slut or a bad person neither.

If you can say that over to yourself when you are feeling this difficulty, it's effects should be even better.

I'll stick around for a while if you eventually respond this.

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>>18235536
I've never went up to a girl and started talking to her. The girl that rejected me the first time basically initiated the conversation with me at a party. I only hanged out with her a few times cause she was the sister of my friend. I was a very different person back then (shy, very introvert, fapped everyday, broke, no high school diploma, no car etc) and despite completely improving myself i still can't do this one thing. It's like a remain of my old self still haunting me.

>>18235564
>despite completely improving myself i still can't do this one thing. It's like a remain of my old self still haunting me.

I may be reaching here but perhaps you feel as though this is a test for all the hard work you've done to improve yourself and that if you don't get a "passing" grade from her you'll feel like you haven't improved enough

The thing is that this single encounter with this single woman has no merit in your self worth

Just get it over with and move on

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>>18235543
yes i absolutely like her. I accept it 110%. I'm NOT ashamed that my body is releasing chemicals that makes me attracted to her. Even though she's slightly less attractive than me I still like her. Not to sound mean but it's true but she's a qt3.14 imo nevertheless

>>18235594
Do you accept that you want to fuck her? Thrust your dick hard on her, hear her moan, and cum?

The pretty part is easy to accept, bro. "I like her" is very pretty. But do you accept that it might be real bad of a relationship too? Do you accept the chances you might take?...

My point is... whatever you are feeling doesn't seem to be a conscious thing. And if it's unconscious, you might think you accept, but you actually don't. Thats why I proposed you to speak those things to yourself.

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>>18235577
No it's not that way! I legit like her even though she has a piercing and tattoos which i usually find repulsive i still like her!!

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>>18235603
Now that you phrased it that way I'm starting to question it desu. I mean seeing her was one of the things i look forward to when going to school and i still think i legit like her but I'm doubting a bit now

>>18235631
*starting to question it desu

>>18235639
why is t.b.h.turning into desu wtf