Ok so lomg story short. We had plans made before spring break after he did not uphold these plans the neighbor convinced me he only viewed me as a hookup. "Bestie" is super adament that is not the case. Kinda wanna end what we've got right now and say "Ok ive honestly been so fucking down today about our situation. Even the solution suggests that im just a hookup. And thats FINE. But you need to at least be honest about that. People who have feelings and think about eachother throughout the day dont take hours to text back minutes. Half an hour. An hour. Maybe. But things have changed. I used to get a lot more out of this and now constantly wondering where shit went wrong is fucking with me. Either we need to find a way to get back where we were or we cant do this. " but also dont want to. Im also considering taking a friends advice and no longer iniating the relationship as well as being very straight forward about the neighbor telling me im a hook up etc. He knows the neighbor has been trying to bang since i moved into my apartment.
all caps means it's over
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Ive seen him since
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Like do i just stop iniating? Tell him im not satisfied with the "solution" we came up with to our problems? Send that text?
Idk OP, maybe he just wanted to fuck and isnt looking for a relationship, however his text states otherwise. His intentions arent exactly clear at this point. Just wait for him to make a move. If he doesnt show interest any further maybe just find someone else.
Sounds like your trying to justify leaving him and hold your neighbor in higher regard. Best thing you can do for him and for you is break up BEFORE you fuck your neighborhood, got it OP? Cheating is worse than being a plain old slut.
advice friend gave op is to be completely passive and see what happens
lol