Just got involved with a girl 4 years older than me- 28 vs 24
She's great, I really like her but part of me feels wrong dating a girl much older than me. I think she'd rush a little to have kids of things got serious, and I can't feel like I'm missing out getting a younger, maybe more malleable girl.
Thoughts?
Fair concerns, but 4 years is only 4 years. If it gets serious and you settle down with her (which, at 24, is really not "too soon" or anything), 24 years from now you'll be 48 and she'll be 52.
That's a difference but such a small one it's irrelevant.
>>18230082
how long have you been dating? do topics of marriage or kids ever come up on your conversations with her?
>>18230111
About 3 months but we knew each other well before...not like there's much left to discover. I am looking for a serious relationship. Anyway she's freakin 28...she's gonna get the urge soon.
>>18230082
Currently dating a girl 5 years older than me. Nothing feels wrong.
Why do you feel you're missing out? What do you mean by 'more malleable'?
>would [by comparison] rush to have kids if I proposed the idea
problem? if you don't propose it, it doesn't happen. if you propose it, she's willing. seems like a win-win.
>less malleable than someone younger
the fuck does this mean?