Holy shit /adv/ I REALLY need your help please.
The thing is I have this ex gf. We ended up the relationship months ago but we still had sex and send pictures to each other. She wasnt my girlfriend anymore but she became one of my best friends.
Now for whatever reason she got her cellphone taken away by their parents and they found out everything we used to do. They are gonna talk to my parents about it and I will never be able to talk to her again or see her.
I really dont know what to do. I'm really sad about all this. We both are over 18 btw
Bump
Sorry for the english. The truth is I'm really nervous and I need help
>>18229585
You'll be able to see her man. Your 18 and they can controll her for long. Its not like your in middleschool. I doubt your parents will care you had sex. They just want you to be safe
dude wtf lol
you're both over 18 lol
who cares what your parents tell you lol
this shouldn't be an issue
>>18229606
Her dad is being aggressive and her mom is calling me a perv. How should I talk this with my parents I dont want them to think I'm a perv or anything...
Where do you live? That'll help us get an understanding of your culture, rather than you just getting a bunch of "hurr durr, you're over 18 so you can do what you want" replies
>over 18
>still controlled by her parents
cut all emotional ties. keep the social line open.
trust me. I've been here before. these people are useless at doing anything outside of their parent's say-so, including being your friend.
>>18229644
South America. I dont think we are that conservative. But I guess their parents still see her as her "little princess"
Fuck what her parents think, you're an adult and do what you want do.
>>18229682
Yeah...good point. What makes me truly sad is that I lost a best friend out of nothing. This sucks
>>18229639
Stand up to her parents, btw remind them that you guys are both 18 and adults
>>18229707
How did you lose your best friend? Did her parents just say "you can't be friends with that perv anymore LMAO"?
>>18229820
Idk man this just happened moments ago. Maybe I'm overreacting?
>>18229660
brazil or a spanish speaking country?
>>18229852
Spanish
>>18229874
oh
my spanish isn't very good but here goes
no son tus padres quien dicen como debes vivir tu vida, especialmente si tienes mas que 18 años. no son ellos que deben controlar tus relaciones.
dis los simplemente que tu ya no eres mas un niño y que ya eres adulto y que es simplemente normal y natural estar con tu nobia
>>18229834
Yeah you probably over reacting.
>I will never be able to talk to her again or see her.
Come on, be realistic. They can't keep her from seeing you by force. Take it easy and try to get into contact with her. Her parents are probably just shocked and, unless they're a bit crazy, soon they'll accept that what's done is done and give her her phone back. I mean, she needs it, right?
You can also try to talk to them and explain that they're both adults and they're overreacting, but it's probably not a good idea.
If they don't come around after a while and you haven't heard from your friend, call the cops. Tell them you haven't seen your friend in a while and you're concerned that her parents might be mistreating her.
>>18229585
Ok first of al you guys are probably in highschool if your parents are taking your phones and they can still control your lives. its fine idc if you are but you guys need to talk to each other and find a way to destroy the evidence or your fucked