Why am I gay?

>>18226645
>I've even crossdressed before and liked it.. Is that gay?
It's not related to your sexuality. Just a fetish.

>What's wrong with me? Is there any legitimate way to reverse this?
Nothing wrong with being a fag, that's just how your brain is, also not much you can do about it. Embrace it. Your parents will eventually get over it, or not but it's their problem not yours.

>I've even crossdressed before and liked it.. Is that gay?

Nah, it can go either way.

>Is there any legitimate way to reverse this?

No. Many people have tried very hard to come up with one, but all methods wind up being either severely damaging or just plain don't work at all, sometimes both.

Though, if you used to think you felt some attraction to girls and then switched to having an interest in guys, I don't see why it couldn't sort of swing back the other way. You're still young and likely working out your sexual preferences, there's a chance you could turn out bi or something. It cannot be forced, though. It has to be allowed to happen naturally and there's also a chance it just won't.

It may also be worth noting that sometimes gay/bi men do end up marrying women, though I'm not sure I'd say it seems like a good idea. I've got a friend whose dad was married to a woman for a while, but later divorced and went on to date a lot of men.

sometimes cross dressing is an extension of sexuality, sometimes its not. its beside the point.

your parents arent wrong. you are attractive. you can get any girl. you can probably get any dude too. and you can still marry a dude.

probably not what they had in mind, but you are their son, not their action figure. if this is a deal breaker for them, if they really care so much about what kind of genitalia your partner has, then why should you care about them? thats not love, thats imagination.

>>18226645
Accept it and live your life. yOUR life, not your parents. They will understand

>>18226714

>they will understand

or they wont. lots of homophobes out there. one of my friends came out and his parents beat him every day. he turned 18 and got 'adopted' by another family.

>marrying
>crossdressing

The only metric that matters is whether or not you fuck dudes and enjoy it, because if you do you are gay.

Not being attracted to women can happen, can be caused by stress, i wouldnt worry about that for now.

Just tell people you're bisexual

Niggas can't argue with a madman who fucks everything

>>18226731

>the only metric that maters is whether or not you fuck dudes and enjoy it

no, wanting to marry a dude is pretty gay.

I've watched a shitton of gay porn in my life but there's no way I'd have gay sex or even entertain the idea of having a... boyfriend/husband, actually I laughed out loud typing that because it's that ridiculous.

If the idea of marrying a man makes you happy, you have the gays. Like full on. There's no reversing that.

>>18226743
Maarying a girls is also kid of faggy though if you really think about it.

>>18226752

faggy, yes. gay? no.

>>18226731

i sucked someone's dick once and liked it..

>>18226809

you're gay. its okay. if your parents arent okay with it thats their problem.

you can't fix the gay, but you can fix your parent situation. so focus on that.

>>18226884

how do i do that

>>18226885

well, are your parents homophobic at all? it doesn't always indicate how they'd feel about their kids, but its a good guideline. if they arent homophobic thy will likely be a little disappointed at first, but once they realize that you're literally the person you were five minutes ago they stop caring.

i find the best way is to not address it so often. not that you can't bring a boy home or anything but rather, dont make gay jokes, it just kinda reenforces in peoples minds that you're JUST a gay.

etiher way, you can always keep it to your self, wehther its for a short while or a long while. we dont have many secrets in this day and age, but its okay to if you so choose.

>>18226889

my mom is a little disapproving about gays or the agenda or whatever, but she is good friends with a gay guy and his boyfriend.

idk what my dad thinks. he isn't very religious and not socially conservative.

I feel like this OP... turned gay late

>>18226899

hard to say. theres no real advice here cuz no matter what we say or what we tell you to do, they can react completely differently.

just dont be sad or ashamed about this piece of you. its not who you are. its not bad. its just a preference, no different than what flavor ice cream you like.

the world will figure that out soon

>>18226954

what if i just tell my mom

what do i even say?

>>18227090

me personally i like surprising people by saying im going to bring over a date and then when i do, its a dude. but last time i did that was on april fools day and there was some confusion.

that being said, you can say anything. i think the casual approach is best. just saying 'hey just so you guys know im pretty sure im gay'. then hope to be able to leave it at that.

id make you my wife

>>18226645
It's just the way your brain is wired up, there's no solution just acceptance.
I'm bicurious, but far from gay, from time to time i can really like how some men look, but far from actually trying to fuck them/get fucked by them, and i really enjoy fucking women a lot.

just try sucking a dick man

I used to think I was gay, then I sucked a dick. At a certain point I realized this was the first and last. For you, maybe it's just the first.

Try quitting porn for a (very long) while. It does all kinds of shit to your brain and you're probably craving something that you aren't desensitized to.
If you were straight before and gay now it's really likely that its just a degenerate fetish and not what you truly want.

>>18226731
>>marrying
>>crossdressing
>The only metric that matters is whether or not you fuck dudes and enjoy it, because if you do you are gay.
>Not being attracted to women can happen, can be caused by stress, i wouldnt worry about that for now.
>>18226716
>>>18226714
>>they will understand
>or they wont. lots of homophobes out there. one of my friends came out and his parents beat him every day. he turned 18 and got 'adopted' by another family.
Christ Almighty .. poor guy. One of my daughters are bi leaning mostly to females. I can still remember how nervous she looked when she told me and how flabbergasted/relieved she looked when I said : and this is a problem because ?? I've always stated that I do not see homosexuality as wrong in any way so I wonder why she ever thought I'd react contrary to my stated opinion. Probably general societal pressure ..