I was reading another thread the other day talking about how becoming friends with someone with the aim for something more was disingenuous.
What about someone you've been friends with a while and just recently started to see them in a different light?
I am not asking if you should spill a confession, but if it was viable to ask them out on a date with them knowing that it is a DATE.
>>18223083
Its always viable to ask someone anything if you are being honest. If youre "a real man" it's expected. She can/will react however she wants though. Try not to be too butthurt if she declines.
If you have new feelings for her go for it. But just know that in most people's experiences, the friend zone is a real thing. Good luck anon.
>>18223187
I was asking cause the other thread made it seem impossible and that I would be labeled a spineless loser. If I already formed a connection it would be too late.
>>18223325
Always try anon. Don't waste your time wondering what if or what could be. Take the risk and ask.
Straight up approach is best but be prepared for rejection, which I imagine she will because you are friends.
>>18223083
Did not read your post at all, who the fuck is that chick?
>>18223411
>>18223483
Hmm... That's what I was thinking. I just didn't think that simply being friends closed all doors. I guess it does kill some element of attraction though
>>18224094
Being friends alone doesn't kill attraction.
What kills attraction is being scared to act on your feelings. If she thinks you've liked her for a long time, but just now got up the courage to ask, then she will see you as a bit of a coward.
Women have a sixth sense when it comes to orbiters.
>>18224134
ok anon
Thank you for your input!