My 1 year and 4 month ldr (were together for 5 months before ldr) girlfriend has been saying that she "doesn't know how she feels about our relationship" and just told me that she doesn't feel anything at all.
I asked her if she felt like she was depressed and she said yes. We chatted about that for an hour or so and now she's asleep. She's gonna talk to her mom about getting help tomorrow. What can I do to help her?
She goes through swings of lovely doveyness and lack of caring at all about me. I naively thought it was PMS. How can I help her in those hard swings of depression?
Have you considered going back for the weekend?
I went back last weekend cause I felt like I needed to. Made up a bullshit excuse about work. We had a great time and she really enjoyed it. She told me then when she is with me in person she gets distracted from the depression and enjoys life but when I'm not there she is alone with the thoughts in her head.
She had a bit of a fucked up childhood. Taken from her absolutely shitty parents at like 3 and moved around foster care for years. Wasn't adopted until 8 into another fucked up family.
>>18221507
its an 8 hour drive one way too so an expensive weekend
Not depression. She wants other cocks. I've been through this after 2 year rship living together.
>>18221532
Someone has to make a sacrifice. You can't have a relationship of all you're doing is taking on the phone