Life and shit

>>18220182
First of all before you even think about trying to jump into a relationship, you have to take care of yourself. How the fuck are you going to show love, affection, and companionship to another human being if you can't even show love to yourself? Start improving your own well being via lifting weights, finding a new job, working on hobbies/activities that interest you, eating healthy, avoiding laziness, etc... Once you are at a point in your life when you can confidently say "I have my shit together", go up to her and introduce yourself and BOOM, she thinks you have balls for approaching her and she knows you exist. By this time you will be confident enough to keep conversations flowing, be outgoing and charming, and be someone a girl will actually want to date without having your failures and low self esteem weighing on your shoulders like a boulder. For me, lifting weights and formulating my own daily routine to stay productive was key. Never stop improving yourself and meeting girls won't be an issue

>>18220284
Wut dude? So he should become a completely different person to ask a girl out lulz?
>>18220182
Just go ask her out. She's an adult (I presume and certainly hope) and can decide for herself, judge you and the situation. That's it really, try to get to know her better so you realise if she is worth having in your life then go for it

>>18220304
Are you retarded or are you retarded? There is a difference between improving oneself and turning into a "completely different person" whatever the fuck that means. Im telling OP to solve his low self esteem issues first because asking her out and trying to manage a relationship while dealing with shitty life issues is bound for failure.

>>18220304
Yeah, maybe it's not a big deal, I'll just talk to her, if she rejects me at least I tried, right?

>>18220284
So, how do I get my shit together, where do I start?