Sex life in a relationship

>How often?
Almost daily, maybe 3 times a week if not
>Relationship Length?
Together 11, married 6
>Live together?
Of course
>Could you live with someone with a different libido?
Like outright your libido is incompatible? Then no, I would not risk the relationship.

However, there are many fluctuations in libido that can happen. We are very sexually active, but a few years ago we went down to having it just once a month or less. That was due to a birth control I was on. It also made me depressed and gain weight, so I stopped it.

Depression and change in routine/jobs can affect some libido.

I'd say it is very situational.

A. Historically on average for the length of "relationship", Every three weeks. Lately much less do to wife getting fat and depressed

B. Like 19 god damn years

C. Yes

D. Yes you can if alimony and child support payments are daunting enough.

>>18217018
>How often do you have sex?
Every other day at least, usually a bit more.

>How long have you been in a relationship?
9.5 years.

>Do you live together?
Yup.

>Could you live with someone with a different libido from you for the rest of your life?
Yes. My boyfriend has a lower libido than I do but he tries to accomodate me, so if he's stressed we have sex much more rarely. It's fine, I don't mind it. I just masturbate and enjoy intimacy otherwise.

>>18217040
>>18217051

The idea of the woman being more sexually aggressive in a relationship is similar to trigonometry for me. I can't even grasp the concept.


Bless you horney ladies.

1) somewhere between twice a week and every other day in average. We do have kinky weeks when we do it every day straight for like 4 or 5 days
2) 8.5 years
3) Yes
4) I don't think so. My ex wasn't in the mood often so I'd jerk off every single day. There's more to a relationship but I can't see myself in one where I masturbate more than have sex again.

>>18217055
He doesn't like it when I'm more sexually aggressive.
I'm just subtly sexy and available. That's his thing. If I try to get him to fuck me, he'll just get turned off.
So his shirt + lace panties yes, sucking his dick just because I'm craving it no.

Life is hard and you can't always get what you want.

Daily basically, sometimes maybe down to 3 times a week, when we take break days or whatnot. We have really good sex that we both look forward to

Since February 10th.

No, but shes a keeper. Probably after a few more months.

I tried to make it work a year ago with a woman who wanted to wait until marriage. Her reasoning was that your relationship builds stronger when you focus on strengthening your bond than getting sex. I saw merit and that and gave it a shot, but we didnt work out. With what I have now I cant imagine a sex life any less than as good as it is now, so probably no

>>18217061
>>18217051
>>18217050
>>18217040
What was the 1940's like, gramps?

>>18217095
Are you high kiddo?

>>18217055
He is also high in the libido territory, so he is very reciprocal if I express any interest in sex.
>>18217095
Huh?

>How often do you have sex?
2-3 times a week.

>How long have you been in a relationship?
5 months.

>Do you live together?
Yes.

>Could you live with someone with a different libido from you for the rest of your life?
No.

Was a few times a year until wife got on the pill, now a few times a month I guess

>>18217018
>How often do you have sex?
Only on weekends and safe days, so approx every two weeks.
>How long have you been in a relationship?
Two months, but we were best friends for years.
>Do you live together?
No.
>Could you live with someone with a different libido from you for the rest of your life?
GF has a higher libido than me. No problem with that. I think I could live with her for the rest of my life.

>>18217055
Me neither. It's a new thing for me to have a girl constantly craving for my dick, but hey.

>How often do you have sex?
At least once a week.
>How long have you been in a relationship?
5 years total, 1 year married
>Do you live together?
Yes, for the past year
>Could you live with someone with a different libido from you for the rest of your life?
To a point, yes. His drive is a bit lower than mine. I try not to pressure him too much, just bait him a bit and if he doesn't bite I leave it alone. If his drive was significantly less I don't think it would work.

>>18217018
> 2-4 times a day
> 2 months
> yes
> eh I don't know, being turned down frustrates me, I mean I don't let it show or force the issue because then I would feel very rapey, but if we don't have sex at least once a day I'm not happy.