truth inflation, extreme flattery

>>18216556

Perhaps you're just extremely modest. While i agree it's impossible to know who the smartest person is someone is paying you huge compliments. Unless they've given you another reason to suspect them then you should relax and take it as it is. Congrats on the huge dick btw

>>18216571
its not huge it's just an inch larger than average

you're telling me I shouldn't be suspicious of people who are flattering me?

I think it's creepy and dishonest. I would always say, "You're very intelligent," rather than, "Oh hur hur you're the smartest person I've ever met." One is a nice complement and the other is a cause for concern.

Maybe I'm just paranoid.

>>18216556
Who is telling you this?

If it is a girl your age, she is trying to date you. Ask her on a date to fancy restaurant.

If it is somebody else, it all depends on context. By telling people nice things you are either trying to befriend them or make them happy.

>>18216608
oh yeah that makes sense

having trouble believing they're so infatuated that there's a separation from reality...maybe I'm just a cold bastard though. my first girlfriend, I still think is the most beautiful woman in the world, despite everyone else telling me she isn't.

is that what you think is happening here? their realities are a little distorted because they want to fuck?

>>18216623
hmm they are young (18-22) too

>>18216623
>my first girl friend is trying to boos my ego by telling me how clever, big dicked and sexy i am
>is this a problem /adv/?

Congratulation on having autism op. This girl either REALLY LIKES YOU, is trying to manupulate you / make you feel happy by inflating your ego or just doesnt want you to leave her.

And guess what op, it is all GOOD thing. And no, average people dont think like this
>inflatuated taht there's separstion from reality
You are now OVERTHINKING things. They are trying to compliment you, that is all. If it bothers you, inform them that they have to try better than that. Make them say you are in top 1 percentile of intelligence instead of
>the smartest one

Cheer op, dont take life so coldly. Sometimes you have to allow people around you to express themselves like idiots and be ok with that.

>>18216648
getting told I have autism a lot lately

you're right. other people are having emotions and shit. I should just be nice to them back, and try to sperg out less often.

>>18216556
Flattery means that people want you to be charitable. If you want people to flatter your intelligence less, then feel free to offer constructive criticism. If you want people to flatter your penis less, then withhold your own orgasm from your sex partners.

I had the same problem in my early twenties.

>>18216839
I think this could use some elaboration

>>18216839
When you offer constructive criticism, people realize your intelligence without wanting to explain their comparative shortcomings.

When you are a man who provides more orgasms to your partner than you receive in turn; then people are disinclined to objectify your sexuality.