Have I Fucked Up

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Ok so a little context here, I asked for advice a few weeks back about asking a girl out.

I set 2 goals for myself that I wanted to achieve in 3 months before my uni midsemester break to turn my life around:
>1 Lose 15kg
>2 Ask the girl I've liked for a little over a year from my course out

Well I finally manned up and did it. Today was the final day before midsemester break and I went for it. She was leaving a study session and I talked to her on the way out towards the train station. She mentioned that she had a 20 min wait before her next train so I casually said "Want to go get coffee, I know a good place at x shopping centre across the road". She was all for it and before I knew it we had been talking for an hour about uni, high school, etc.

Here's where I fucked up. I didn't have the balls to ask for her number, something just didn't feel right or I'm too much of a coward.

I staged a recovery operation as I had promised to send her some notes from a class she missed and talked to her a bit about it and decided to ask her out over facebook rather than wait 2 weeks to see her again after the break.

>"Hey so i had a good time today when we got coffee and enjoyed talking to you. Any chance you want to catch up sometime again during midsem break when you're around campus"

We had discussed that we both would be around during the break as we had some groupwork to get done for uni.

She hasn't responded and it's been 5 hours. Messenger claims she hasn't seen it but she was online for 2 hours.

I know I'm blowing this out of proportion but I can't feel as if I haven't fucked myself over. I'm not gonna message her again obviously, but I can't figure out honestly what is going on other than her ghosting me. It's not that I fear rejection but I'd rather have closure to the situation.