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I fucked up, i have no idea how to deal with this. 2017-04-12 12:44:57 Post No. 18215822
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I fucked up, i have no idea how to deal with this.
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2017-04-12 12:44:57
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Im going to be short, if you have any questions ask them.
Girl i used to bully in primary contacted me around 7 years ago. We got along and became friends. somewhere along the way we both changed and i didn't enjoy being around her. By that time she was friends with my friends and parents.
So around 4 years ago i started trying to avoid her, i would make excuse after excuse not to hang with her and she didn't take them, she would just say "after, later, tomorrow".
She thinks we have been best friends for the past 3 years, but i have fucking hated her the entire time. Her life is so sad, i felt guilty and kept her around. Its at the point now where i don't even know how i would tell her that i hate her.
We have no common interests anymore and i end up just doing shit she wants to do, she thinks i like it.
I know everything about her, im by far the closets person to her, id say i know everything about her.
its making me miserable, and lying to her so much is making me feel like shit.
her and my gf get along well, my parents like her and my friends think shes okay. But i cant stand her, every time i see her i feel guilty and like shit.
How the fuck do i tell her that i don't want to spend time with her without fucking up my other relationships, my friends and gf think i like things that i don't because i feel forced to do it with her and fake enjoyment.
At this point i cant tell anyone the truth, because they would all hate me, how the fuck do i dispose of this toxic sack of shit wile hurting her and my relationships the least ?
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>>18215822
tldr: how to end a friendship of someone that thinks you're there best friend and friends with all your friends and family
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U know that the friendship between women and men doesn't exist at all.
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>>18215861
This
Unless you are literally gay
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It's your own fault and you know exactly how to deal with it, you're just too much of a pussy to do it. There is no easy extra option you just haven't thought of yet.
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>>18215822
Help her establish her own social network and then slowly transition her out of yours.
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>>18215822
If you had been honest when your enjoyment of her company first changed, you would not be in this situation. Every additional day that you put off dealing with the problem, it gets worse. Honestly, at this point, it sounds like you've gotten yourself into a socially apocalyptic situation, but there is no magic way out and the only person you have to blame is yourself.
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>>18215881
This
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See this shit? This is why I got trust issues when it comes to friends
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