How do I kill jealousy of someone I can't have?
This shit is making me anxious and taking my sleep. I been felling jealousy of this co-worker that i'm not even in a relationship with. We had some sparks here and there a few weeks ago but my autism made me fuck it up again and now she most definitely thinks I rejected her but in reality I wanted to have something to happen between us. Now she's talking to other dudes who are stronger and make more money than me and I feel fucking horrible whenever she does that HOW DO I STOP IT
man up and win her back
>>18215757
Is that even a possibility?
>>18215762
Of course it is man. It sounds to me like you either work in a restaurant or are going to school. Here's the thing, both of those places are giant fuckfests. Everybody's just young and horny. She's flirting with these other guys because everyone flirts with everyone in those places. It doesn't mean she's in love with them, you've just got to edge them out.
My advice to you on how to do that is as follows. Just be yourself, stop worrying about her, but if you do find yourself in a conversation with her, flirt your fucking ass off. Now keep in mind, these young girls are super slutty. So don't be afraid to make it a little dirty, you know, spice that shit up
The main thing is. Stop thinking about her all the time. Girls dont want a man that they cant mentally control like that, they want a man that they're thinking about who doesnt give a shit about them
>>18215779
>Of course it is man. It sounds to me like you either work in a restaurant or are going to school
NO dude, I work at a really serious company and you barely see anything related to flirting in here not even between those who are in relationships.
>>18215785
>>18215788
Thank you , I've been trying to do exactly this now, act normally but if she tries something I just go with the wave but fuck me if it's not hard to keep her out of my mind when she's always walking here and there joking and smiling and laughing at other dudes. And when she does that I feel terrible inside.
>>18215749
Just talk to her and ask her out.
>>18216474
This
>>18216474
>>18216506
Already did that, she didn't show any sign of much interest