Dunno

>>18212629
>be me
See that's where you went wrong, try being someone else.

>>18212629
Try not being ugly

>>18212629
Start looking people in the eyes, especially when talking/listening, and everyone you pass on the street - never be the first one to look away, you'll notice how overwhelmingly many people are insecure, and it'll automatically shift your own esteem. Also ask/greet/compliment strangers, anyone in normal interactions. The more people you've talked to during the day, the more natural it becomes once you run in to qt3.14

>inb4 creepy
No. Confident. Remember to nod/smile/whatever to whoever's not looking away after a few seconds.

>>18212629
Hi.
38 year old femanon here.
I used to be you, or maybe worse.
I threw myself into learning everything I could. I gained confidence this way.
Learn skills and languages & cooking.
A book that was really helpful to me at this age was: Letters to a Young Poet by Rainier Maria Rilke.

>>18212703
A former friend of mine gave me that book about ten years ago. Never did read it, but it's one of less than 30 books on my shelves.

How did it change things for you?

>>18212725
It made me comfortable with my ultimate aloneness (even within a relationship), and helped me tune in to all the beauty in the world.
Absolutely read it.

>>18212725
2 people told you to check the book out. Just read it. 4chan can't do everything for you.

>>18212629

confidence is the belief in the truth of something.

so in order to be confident there must be a truth. if there is a truth, acknowledge it. if there is no truth to be confident in, fix it.

>>18212756

this. an ugly woman with 'confidence' in her looks is just laughed at. its not confidence, its arrogance.

>>18212742
I'm not complaining?

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mass sending ur waist pics and ur eye pupils to any intelligent species over the milky way or andromeda.
maybe it will reach TRAPPIST-1 oneday, by then humans will be Type 3 civilization -on Sagan-Kardashev scale- that managed to bottle a star via nuclear fusion while mining the lunar dust for Deuterium.
and by then NASA DSN will be offered as a free communication infrastructure for ppl to use.
so yeah u have sent extraterrestrial interstellar nudes, so why u would be insecure about urself.

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>>18212629
Have more sex. Making guys cum will help you feel beautiful and validated

>>18212629
if you want to get coffee I'll show you how to build some confidence

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Realize that most "humans" are subspecies trash that don't offer anything to the world, and as long as you do, you're better than a few billion peeps, Hope I helped.

>>18212629
>boosting confidence
listen to heavy metal
simply stop caring about shit
develop hobbies
just do shit in general that give you thrills

>>18212629
Listen to Alex Jones and similar and realise that completely retarded people have succeeded, and so you should be able to as well