Gf advice

You can't fix her. Just get out and save yourself. At this point it is your fault if you end up miserable with her.

Fuck her daily

>how do I fix her

You don't. She can, but she doesn't want to. You can't drag her to become a functional member of society.

How does she live now, without a job? With her parents?

>>18210277

>consciously makes the decision to date a NEET

>complains that his girlfriend is a NEET

Seems like you're in a bit of a pickle, OP. This is what you get for dating a fixer-upper.

>>18210433
Yeah she lives with her parents. When we met she actually had a job and she just slowly turned into a NEET.

So breaking up is the only reasonebly thing to do? If I do I probably won't find another girl for the next five years.

>>18211609
I would have a serious discussion with her about where you see you two going in life, both individually and as a couple. If those things aren't compatible, then you might need to consider breaking things off.

>>18211627
We've done that and neither of us knows what we want. We wanna leave our native country, live in a big city, have a dog and have time for our hobbies, hers painting mine is boxing. Feels wrong to leave it like this cause if she gets her shit together it would work.

>>18211676
She loves you, wants to stay with you; but she does not want to leave the country with you.

She is amazed by you, and feels intimidated.

You need to have a conversation about that.

Emigrating is hard without a high school math education. There is your answer to:

>"I don't understand so why should I even try?"

She might just want to become pregnant by you and start a family as is.

>>18211743
She refuses to talk about stuff that stresses her out so it's a bit hard. I was thinking about in worst case stay as it is and when it's time for a family we break up and find a more realistic partner. Is that bad?

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>>18210277
>"I don't understand so why should I even try?"
Just find a new fucking girlfriend already. She will never be worth it.

>>18211609
The stuff you've written makes it obvious she will not change, at least not for a very long time. If you aren't happy with her as she is, then you should leave. Sorry, I know this isn't the answer you want to hear but it's for the best.

>>18212240

That is bad, you are leading her on without the expectation of a fruitful and loving relationship.