I am terrified of babies and the thought of babies or having babies or hell..even just looking at or taking care of babies.
I am 26 year old male though. I feel as if I am running out of time? I haven't even kissed a girl yet. Then I go on /pol/ and read all this shit like "YOUR CHANCES OF HAVING AUTISTIC BABIES SKY ROCKETS AT AGE 30!"
I feel like I am fucked either way. I am a only child and my parents are dead too so I feel kind of obligated to have kids but kids seem like such a bad fucking idea.
I have met many people with kids, I know ZERO who are happy right now. Or don't look miserable and tired all the time.
What is the draw of wanting a family? I want one but I don't feel like its my own thoughts that are wanting one.
I am also scared of having to date a 30 year old female. I have seen and met a couple single 30 year old females and the lot of them seem strangely unstable.
What should I do?
>>18210211
>I have seen and met a couple single 30 year old females and the lot of them seem strangely unstable.
>What should I do?
I think that a 26 year old guy who has never kissed a girl and frequents /pol/ is one of the least capable people of judging how unstable someone is, especially women. You've never had a relationship. You know nothing about women, so it perplexes me how exactly you are at all knowledgeable about the instability of 30 year old women. Of course, there is the/pol/ meme about how women over 30 are emotionally damaged gold diggers but that is just as bullshit as the rest of their rhetoric Lets also not forget you are a 26 year old KHV; you're not exactly a catch yourself, brudder. Glass houses and all, huh?
My opinion is that you're terrified and critical of all these things you've never done before. You've never had a girlfriend, you've never been in a relationship, you've never had sex, you've never had a conversation about children so HOW do you think you possibly have enough information to judge how bad or good of an idea it is? Seriously dude, stop reading all these /pol/ and /r9k/ memes about the scourge of women and find this shit out on your own because at this point you, inherently, have no idea what you're talking about.
Get into a relationship with a woman. A good relationship. THEN form an opinion about children. Being freaked out about doing something you've never even been close to experiencing seems counter productive to the greater mission here.
>>18210222
I understand where you are coming from but I feel like I don't need to experience something to know if it sucks or not.
I have never hit my dick with a hammer but I know I would not like it.
Starting a family and having a baby and shit is just.. aids-esque? I feel it is something I should WANT but I feel rather obligated to have one. or so.
Don't have kids to pass your mental illness to.
>>18210211
You don't have to have kids Anon
You can do wathever you want
>>18210222
Is a well known fact that women go bananas at 30, you are either a young woman who doesn't think it will happen to her or an older woman is in denial
Protip menopause is a thing, it changes your fucking brain, your brain changes according to your age, phisical changes
>>18210211
I've known I was never going to have kids my entire life. Didn't find babies cute back then, don't find them cute now. If I had my own children and they misbehaved I might beat them out of rage. I wouldn't be a good parent, and I'm not willing to give up things I enjoy just to forever ruin my vagina for a creature that will be a shithead and won't be thankful for anything I do until they're at least 20, maybe never.
>>18210766
well wtf else are you going to use your vagina for?