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Trying to get back my life. I am afraid i might relapse back again. i have been avoiding everything escaping reality. fapping gaming sleeping avoiding my important works. i find no goal no purpose in my life. i am 25 yo this year still living with my parents still a virgin haha what a loser right?

i want to fix my life. my attention span for work is 0. and that is the problem for now i need to start working.

any advice for a loser trying to get back his life?
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Swallow the redpill.
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>>18209737
You're definitely a lost cause. You could go use your resentment/beta buildup energy points to hack some industry and get rich off other people's failure or degeneracy. You will never not be a loser, but you can use your hopeless life to go after something no one else would ever dare to.

Even then, you won't do that because you're a lazy fuck. You've been given thousands of chances to improve yourself throughout your life but you're just too damn lazy. Kill yourself.
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>>18209789

What did i ever do to you to deserve this kind of "advice"?
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>>18209823
You posted here. This is not your safe space, faggot. Welcome, newman.
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>>18209737
I'm in the same boat as far as work ethics and motivations go, but I'm at a decent uni working towards a degree thanks to putting minimal effort where it counted.

There is no 'fix' to your life, there isn't a magical advice that will turn you into a motivated person, your brain can't derive genuine pleasure from hard work after years of abusing your reward system with effortless pleasure.
Luckily, our brains are plastic, meaning that if you spend enough of time into the things you've been avoiding while keeping your addictions to minimum, then you have a chance to change.

There is no escape, the only cure for NEET is to work.
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>>18209948
Am also pursuing a degree but the lack of motivation is killing my grades. I began aiming for "passes" and mediocrity. I want to fix it but i fucked up my brain reward system badly. It just got so bad that now i am even escaping my work cause i find no "reward" from it.
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>>18209969
Yeah I can tell you're not really looking to improve, if you want to hide behind words like 'lack of motivation' and 'no reward' like those are things people have naturally, then you're eventually going to face the natural consequences of working at McDonald's for eternity.

If you just want to escape from your current state I recommend drugs or suicide.
And no, we're not trying to be mean. There's thousands of faggots like you(including myself), you either deal with it or don't.
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Start doing sports. Establish a habit of going to the gym. Three times a week, at least one day recovery in between. Best is you meet someone there. Treat it like an appointment with a fixed time. Have a trainer create a training plan with you. I rec building muscle. Building this habit will enable you to transform other areas of your life. You can start eating healthy, you will feel better, you will look better. Read "the power of habit by Charles Duhigg", it is explained there.
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>>18209737
>For the socially retarded.

The only advisable course of action that minimises the distress caused by being socially isolated/retarded is to get a menial job that isn't too taxing, then start a collecting hobby that will occupy a decent amount of time. I myself have started a gaming collection of a certain system of which I am edging closer and closer to completion but probably never will, in the same way Achilles will never beat the tortoise. It's an ultimately fruitless endeavour even if you do complete it but it's really for speeding up the passage of time and to avoid thinking about your current situation. Also when you go about collecting occasionally you'll run into normies, usually fucking hipsters, who for some reason are impressed by your dedication and/or collection. Savour that crumb of acceptance but DON'T get addicted to it. Acknowledge their interest but don't give them much satisfaction.

If all goes well, you'll die a busy man. Not happy mind you, just someone who was too busy to acknowledge his depression.

A tip I learnt from Dr Steve Brule:
>Go to bed early you doofus. Cos when you're sleeping there's no lonely times, just dreams.

I guarentee no one here will give better advice than this.
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>>18210203
Other anon here, I did that. I fill lots of free time with sports. But it had zero carry over to getting actual work done
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>>18209737
Remember its not about motivation anon, cause that won't happen and you wont see instant results. It's about self discipline. Use that hatred of yourself to fuel you to prove yourself and your parents wrong about you.
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