Can men really be virgins by choice or is that a myth?

>>18209360
I've turned down about 4 or 5 girls dude.
Sex seems pointless if it isn't worth somebody you really care about.

>>18209366
I just don't want to have sex with someone I wouldn't want to have kids with.

>>18209366
Glad I'm not the only one. Either I really didn't want it or I was too depressed at the time.

>>18209360

What, do you think monks don't exist?

>>18209360
>>18209366
>>18209399
I turned down guaranteed sex with someone in high school when she asked me to take her to prom. She told me she would fuck me if I went and I said no. Both because I wasn't into her, and because I was interested in someone else.

>>18209439
Probably the right choice.

>>18209366
Yeah, I had this mindset too for my first time. I'm glad I did it with a girl I cared about, because the first time is really the only time it'll matter

I've turned down women before, but only once did I turn down sex that was right in front of me. I was 19 and this 25 year old I met through one of my classes clicked and decided to watch netflix at her apartment. I honestly had no idea what she was up to but she jumped me and it eventually got to the point where we were naked and grinding on each other. She wanted to put it in and I had to use every bit of my willpower to say no. Honestly at that point I might as well have but saving my virginity was a pretty big priority then.

I've turned down a lot of girls in my life.

Back when I was a virgin, pounding an ugly or fat girl who wanted to give it up to me wasn't worth it.

I remember one of the meanest things I've ever said - in reply to "Danielle says she'll have sex with you if you take her to prom," I said "well her chances just went down."

But seriously, who sends someone to say they'll fuck you for something like that? Ugh. But losing my virginity wasn't special. I lost it to a girl I never got with again, in front of a group of people. Super hot though.

>>18209360
Only makes that have had sex are men, the rest are eunuchs

>>18209360
If you ever find yourself asking a question about ALL PEOPLE, EVER, the answer is literally always going to be yes. Which doesn't mean they're not extremely rare.

>"Can men ever be purely platonic friends with attractive women?"
Yes. Of course.

>"Can you ever trust a serial cheater who says they've reformed?"
Yes. Of course.

>"Can men really be virgins by choice?"
Yes. Of course.

Are any of these things at all common?
Absolutely not.

>>18209360
Ya, lots actually. There are just way more that aren't.

Not a virgin. But only had piv sex once.

I've turned down, and been turned down. Today, I feel I'd do more turning down than anything else. Temptation is real with or without someone. But being at war with temptation is also real.

>>18209833
Ironically, it by no means quells my surges of anxiety and desperation.. but with age I can imagine developing more inner strength. In practice though.. still watch porn, stil have a huge crush on a girl who doesn't notice me.. meh

The bible is pretty clear about participating in intercourse before marriage.

>>18209360
I'm a Christian. That should answer your question.

The hard part is not being a virgin by choice necessarily, but having people realize that you are virgin by choice. But that doesn't matter, so yeah.

>>18209421
Like the tv show cause that guy's an actor

>>18209360
i've turned down a furry sjw and a broken girl.
reason is cause none of it would last obviously.
also the broken girl openly announced to the classroom that she'd fuck me.