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My ex left me 6 months ago after 3 years in relation, we saw each other for the last time around 4 months ago...Few days ago I have heard that she is already dating some guy... I find it very hard to find anybody else at the moment, I am not completly over her, but I know there is no sense to come back to her... Today I saw her on the street chilling on the bench... I could feel like my world is callapsing, I just wanted to hide somewhere so I don't see her and she doesn't see me. I get this feeling, that it was very easy for her to get over me, and that she will do much better without me and that she will get much more without me. While I get this impression that I am condemned for total failure and loneliness and unhappy life comparing to her... I have a goals in my life, and I started to working on myself and my body... But those thoughts are stuck in my head... plz help...
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Do you have any friends, mate?
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>>18205648
yeah I do bro... but... idk, of course when I am among friends I am not thinking about that shit, but whenever I have nothing to do this idea just bother my fucking head...
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>>18205641
Go out with your friends, meet a new girl.
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>>18205670
will it change immediately once I meet the right person again?
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>>18205677
No. Honestly you shouldn't seek another girl until you completely get over this one.
It gets better tho. Distract yourself, have fun, have dates, get laid, forget about the world.
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>>18205677
It'll sure as shit help. It's always easier to get over trauma if you're making new positive emotions.
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>the right person
Stop that.
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>>18205694
So basically, you are trying to say that there is no such person as "right person"?
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>>18205718
No, I'm saying that with the proper effort lots of people can be your "right person", but it takes work. There is no natural born perfect fit for you out there. Or maybe there is, but she's 1 in a million, so you shouldn't wait for her. Instead, find someone you life and get along with well, and just work on it. That always worked beautifully for me.
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