I have, for the first time in my life, fallen in love. At least I think this is what love is.
Regardless, I've only met her online.I've talked to her for quite a long time now. I have no clue whether she feels the same way. She is the kindest, most caring person I've met in my life, hands down. I've never felt this way about anyone before, not even close, and I'm fucking 20. For that reason, I cannot figure out if she's flirting when we speak. There are numerous occasions where I compliment her, she always compliments back in her very kind, caring manner. I've seen her act somewhat similar in other forms of media to other people, but cannot tell if they're different. I think she acts different around me, but at the same time it could just be me seeing what I want to see. Hypothetically, if she MAY have the same feelings towards me, how should I go about pursuing this? I don't want to lose this. I've never felt this way in my life.
Sorry for the cliche "help with girls pls" post. I would refrain but I genuinely have nobody to go to for this.
>>18204232
>What is love?
>Baby don't hurt me
>Don't hurt me no more
>>18204256
Now I'm in a dilemma and also have a song stuck on my head
Hmu op. https:// discord gg /PQ73F
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>>18204325
Apparently the invite is expired?
>>18204386
https://discord.gg/WkkKs
>>18204232
First of all, I wouldn't say it's love. It's affection, it's attraction, but love is too strong a word for someone you haven't yet met in person.
Secondly, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
Even if you get shot down, there's hope to stay friends. If she's not interested, there's nothing you can do to convince her. If you're too overbearing with it, you'll have difficulty recovering a friendship.
That said, I would compliment her in a dm, and ask her if she wants to grab drinks/coffee with you. Don't think too much about how to do it perfectly, if she's into you, she'll find it perfect. Don't be too wordy/awkward, 1 message will do.
If she says no and doesn't offer another activity, then take that as she isn't interested.
Good luck.
>>18204232
Kill that feeling m8. It only brings suffering.